My boyfriend takes forever to cum but has a bizarre explanation for it /u/Sillyypie Sex

I (23f) am dating my boyfriend (26m) for 6 months now. He took my virginity so he’s the only guy I’ve ever been with. I am little overweight but he on the other hand is very fit, a gym rat and a power lifter. I was pretty insecure about my body but he’s made me feel very good about myself until I came across this tiktok saying how men will cum faster if they’re really attracted to u and if you are really hot. I asked this to my boyfriend and he says it’s lame. Okay so when we have sex, he can go on for a second time and then a third time almost immediately after cumming, he doesn’t need breaks. The first cum takes around 5mins to sometimes 10 mins and the second one can take up to 20 mins to 30 mins, third takes even longer until I’m all tired and rubbed dry there. He just takes too long to cum and he says it’s cuz the first one is always fast but the second one always is longer and he says when he’s more horny it takes more time in all the rounds cuz he really doesn’t want to cum fast. Is that true?? Do men take longer when they’re more horny?? I’m not that into sex, I’ve always heard girls say how they want their man to last forever in bed but I want him to get done with it after 10-15 mins cuz after that my legs hurt, I’m dry down there and it’s really not pleasurable, but he insists on doing it more. He sometimes wants to even do six or 7 rounds. He also has a mindset that girls want men to last at least for an hour but maybe I’m just not normal and I want him to finish early. After watching that TikTok I’ve been feeling more insecure about my body, maybe I’m just not sexy enough to make him cum faster.

I (23f) am dating my boyfriend (26m) for 6 months now. He took my virginity so he’s the only guy I’ve ever been with. I am little overweight but he on the other hand is very fit, a gym rat and a power lifter. I was pretty insecure about my body but he’s made me feel very good about myself until I came across this tiktok saying how men will cum faster if they’re really attracted to u and if you are really hot. I asked this to my boyfriend and he says it’s lame. Okay so when we have sex, he can go on for a second time and then a third time almost immediately after cumming, he doesn’t need breaks. The first cum takes around 5mins to sometimes 10 mins and the second one can take up to 20 mins to 30 mins, third takes even longer until I’m all tired and rubbed dry there. He just takes too long to cum and he says it’s cuz the first one is always fast but the second one always is longer and he says when he’s more horny it takes more time in all the rounds cuz he really doesn’t want to cum fast. Is that true?? Do men take longer when they’re more horny?? I’m not that into sex, I’ve always heard girls say how they want their man to last forever in bed but I want him to get done with it after 10-15 mins cuz after that my legs hurt, I’m dry down there and it’s really not pleasurable, but he insists on doing it more. He sometimes wants to even do six or 7 rounds. He also has a mindset that girls want men to last at least for an hour but maybe I’m just not normal and I want him to finish early. After watching that TikTok I’ve been feeling more insecure about my body, maybe I’m just not sexy enough to make him cum faster.