I (26F) have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now. We have a very healthy sex life with one major problem: I can’t orgasm with a partner. I’ve been able to have 3 orgasms from partners in the past, out of years of experience with about a dozen people. My boyfriend is the love of my life, and I would be happy with him no matter what, but he just feels really guilty that he can’t get me to orgasm. I can get there with a vibrator in 30 seconds flat, but penetration doesn’t get me anywhere close, and his hands and mouth are almost too much stimulation. I have to be laying flat on my back, using a vibrator, with no distraction. I can’t even use the vibrator during sex. I figure I must have the female equivalent of death grip. Has anyone experienced this? I feel like I’m broken, especially since so much talk about sex is centered around female orgasm, like that’s what defines good sex. How can I fix this?
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r/sex I (26F) have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now. We have a very healthy sex life with one major problem: I can’t orgasm with a partner. I’ve been able to have 3 orgasms from partners in the past, out of years of experience with about a dozen people. My boyfriend is the love of my life, and I would be happy with him no matter what, but he just feels really guilty that he can’t get me to orgasm. I can get there with a vibrator in 30 seconds flat, but penetration doesn’t get me anywhere close, and his hands and mouth are almost too much stimulation. I have to be laying flat on my back, using a vibrator, with no distraction. I can’t even use the vibrator during sex. I figure I must have the female equivalent of death grip. Has anyone experienced this? I feel like I’m broken, especially since so much talk about sex is centered around female orgasm, like that’s what defines good sex. How can I fix this? submitted by /u/shenaningans24 [link] [comments]
I (26F) have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now. We have a very healthy sex life with one major problem: I can’t orgasm with a partner. I’ve been able to have 3 orgasms from partners in the past, out of years of experience with about a dozen people. My boyfriend is the love of my life, and I would be happy with him no matter what, but he just feels really guilty that he can’t get me to orgasm. I can get there with a vibrator in 30 seconds flat, but penetration doesn’t get me anywhere close, and his hands and mouth are almost too much stimulation. I have to be laying flat on my back, using a vibrator, with no distraction. I can’t even use the vibrator during sex. I figure I must have the female equivalent of death grip. Has anyone experienced this? I feel like I’m broken, especially since so much talk about sex is centered around female orgasm, like that’s what defines good sex. How can I fix this?
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