So I’m casually seeing someone and I guess it was only her second time having sex, and that time I could feel her tensing up and she was pretty dry, so I said we could slow things down and just cuddle. Usually that works and once I reassure her and like talk to her, I’ve noticed that when we start making out again then she’s super wet and I can slide into her.
She told me she wants to have sex and stuff, but that she’s just really nervous and I guess I’m the first guy she’s even kissed sober.
Even then, once I’m inside her I try to go slow bc I can’t go all the way yet until it sort of expands or whatever.
I’ve asked her what she likes and she tells me she doesn’t know, and I think even when I eat her out she gets kind of nervous.
Also it’s hard to get the truth out of her bc I’m pretty sure it kind of it hurts her or something, but I’m not sure. I’ll ask her and check in with her, and she says she’s fine but she’s the type of girl to like always say sorry when there’s bo reason to.
And I totally get being nervous I told her I used to be the same way and would tremble, so I’m never annoyed or frustrated, I just want the sex to be smooth.
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r/sex So I’m casually seeing someone and I guess it was only her second time having sex, and that time I could feel her tensing up and she was pretty dry, so I said we could slow things down and just cuddle. Usually that works and once I reassure her and like talk to her, I’ve noticed that when we start making out again then she’s super wet and I can slide into her. She told me she wants to have sex and stuff, but that she’s just really nervous and I guess I’m the first guy she’s even kissed sober. Even then, once I’m inside her I try to go slow bc I can’t go all the way yet until it sort of expands or whatever. I’ve asked her what she likes and she tells me she doesn’t know, and I think even when I eat her out she gets kind of nervous. Also it’s hard to get the truth out of her bc I’m pretty sure it kind of it hurts her or something, but I’m not sure. I’ll ask her and check in with her, and she says she’s fine but she’s the type of girl to like always say sorry when there’s bo reason to. And I totally get being nervous I told her I used to be the same way and would tremble, so I’m never annoyed or frustrated, I just want the sex to be smooth. submitted by /u/LUVFIVE [link] [comments]
So I’m casually seeing someone and I guess it was only her second time having sex, and that time I could feel her tensing up and she was pretty dry, so I said we could slow things down and just cuddle. Usually that works and once I reassure her and like talk to her, I’ve noticed that when we start making out again then she’s super wet and I can slide into her.
She told me she wants to have sex and stuff, but that she’s just really nervous and I guess I’m the first guy she’s even kissed sober.
Even then, once I’m inside her I try to go slow bc I can’t go all the way yet until it sort of expands or whatever.
I’ve asked her what she likes and she tells me she doesn’t know, and I think even when I eat her out she gets kind of nervous.
Also it’s hard to get the truth out of her bc I’m pretty sure it kind of it hurts her or something, but I’m not sure. I’ll ask her and check in with her, and she says she’s fine but she’s the type of girl to like always say sorry when there’s bo reason to.
And I totally get being nervous I told her I used to be the same way and would tremble, so I’m never annoyed or frustrated, I just want the sex to be smooth.
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