I’m looking for advice on safe options for temperature play. Temperature play is one of the things she hasn’t tried yet but finds the idea exciting. My partner (f) is into bdsm, pain, anal, and rough sex in general. The next time we get together the plan is to blind fold her and go with whatever I come up with! (she doesn’t want to know the plan or what’s involved!) there will be a safe word ofc! The first obvious thing I came up with was ice cubes, rubbing them on her body then sticking one (or two) inside her vagina before we do anal. I was also considering using hand warmers for a hot sensation with a finale (with the hand warmers) of putting one in a condom and putting it in her vagina or maybe duck taping one onto her breast. The most extreme I wanna go is to light a candle and drizzle the wax on her breasts, nipples, and down her stomach while penetrating her. Is there anything dangerous with any of the ideas I have had so far? Any suggestions would be appreciated! This will be both of our first time doing something like this and I want things to be exciting but safe! Thank you!
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r/sex I’m looking for advice on safe options for temperature play. Temperature play is one of the things she hasn’t tried yet but finds the idea exciting. My partner (f) is into bdsm, pain, anal, and rough sex in general. The next time we get together the plan is to blind fold her and go with whatever I come up with! (she doesn’t want to know the plan or what’s involved!) there will be a safe word ofc! The first obvious thing I came up with was ice cubes, rubbing them on her body then sticking one (or two) inside her vagina before we do anal. I was also considering using hand warmers for a hot sensation with a finale (with the hand warmers) of putting one in a condom and putting it in her vagina or maybe duck taping one onto her breast. The most extreme I wanna go is to light a candle and drizzle the wax on her breasts, nipples, and down her stomach while penetrating her. Is there anything dangerous with any of the ideas I have had so far? Any suggestions would be appreciated! This will be both of our first time doing something like this and I want things to be exciting but safe! Thank you! submitted by /u/biraz255407 [link] [comments]
I’m looking for advice on safe options for temperature play. Temperature play is one of the things she hasn’t tried yet but finds the idea exciting. My partner (f) is into bdsm, pain, anal, and rough sex in general. The next time we get together the plan is to blind fold her and go with whatever I come up with! (she doesn’t want to know the plan or what’s involved!) there will be a safe word ofc! The first obvious thing I came up with was ice cubes, rubbing them on her body then sticking one (or two) inside her vagina before we do anal. I was also considering using hand warmers for a hot sensation with a finale (with the hand warmers) of putting one in a condom and putting it in her vagina or maybe duck taping one onto her breast. The most extreme I wanna go is to light a candle and drizzle the wax on her breasts, nipples, and down her stomach while penetrating her. Is there anything dangerous with any of the ideas I have had so far? Any suggestions would be appreciated! This will be both of our first time doing something like this and I want things to be exciting but safe! Thank you!
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