I really need help figuring out what is happening with me. I’ve been celibate for 3 years (after a pretty bad breakup) so fast forward to now, yeah I’m sexually frustrated. I’ve always had a type, typically black men around my age, I’m 29(F). I still am attracted to them I just know I’m not ready for a relationship so I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if I know it’s not going anywhere. So this is where it gets weird, about a week ago I had this urge to have sex again and it was so intense it almost hurt lol BUT with an older man. Specifically an older Mexican man like maybe in his 40s. Idk if this is a fantasy or what but I’ve been thinking about it like almost every single day since. Mind you, older or even Mexican men have NEVRR been my type, ever. But now all of a sudden that’s what I want? I’ve never experienced this before and this might be TMI but I get so wet just seeing a picture of a man like that. And the crazy thing is that I just wanna hook up, maybe even just one time, just to get it out of my system. I come from a very strict family but like knowing this is something that would be kinda unacceptable also kinda turns me on. Lol please don’t judge me, idk whats happening to me. And I know for a fact I would never be in a relationship with an older man, so I don’t know where this strong urge is coming from. Anyone else ever experience this before?
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r/sex I really need help figuring out what is happening with me. I’ve been celibate for 3 years (after a pretty bad breakup) so fast forward to now, yeah I’m sexually frustrated. I’ve always had a type, typically black men around my age, I’m 29(F). I still am attracted to them I just know I’m not ready for a relationship so I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if I know it’s not going anywhere. So this is where it gets weird, about a week ago I had this urge to have sex again and it was so intense it almost hurt lol BUT with an older man. Specifically an older Mexican man like maybe in his 40s. Idk if this is a fantasy or what but I’ve been thinking about it like almost every single day since. Mind you, older or even Mexican men have NEVRR been my type, ever. But now all of a sudden that’s what I want? I’ve never experienced this before and this might be TMI but I get so wet just seeing a picture of a man like that. And the crazy thing is that I just wanna hook up, maybe even just one time, just to get it out of my system. I come from a very strict family but like knowing this is something that would be kinda unacceptable also kinda turns me on. Lol please don’t judge me, idk whats happening to me. And I know for a fact I would never be in a relationship with an older man, so I don’t know where this strong urge is coming from. Anyone else ever experience this before? submitted by /u/Loveandbeauty22 [link] [comments]
I really need help figuring out what is happening with me. I’ve been celibate for 3 years (after a pretty bad breakup) so fast forward to now, yeah I’m sexually frustrated. I’ve always had a type, typically black men around my age, I’m 29(F). I still am attracted to them I just know I’m not ready for a relationship so I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if I know it’s not going anywhere. So this is where it gets weird, about a week ago I had this urge to have sex again and it was so intense it almost hurt lol BUT with an older man. Specifically an older Mexican man like maybe in his 40s. Idk if this is a fantasy or what but I’ve been thinking about it like almost every single day since. Mind you, older or even Mexican men have NEVRR been my type, ever. But now all of a sudden that’s what I want? I’ve never experienced this before and this might be TMI but I get so wet just seeing a picture of a man like that. And the crazy thing is that I just wanna hook up, maybe even just one time, just to get it out of my system. I come from a very strict family but like knowing this is something that would be kinda unacceptable also kinda turns me on. Lol please don’t judge me, idk whats happening to me. And I know for a fact I would never be in a relationship with an older man, so I don’t know where this strong urge is coming from. Anyone else ever experience this before?
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