I (M25) have not been sexually active for a long time. I barely lost my virginity a few months ago and I’ve maintained the same sexual partner since so I’m barely figuring myself out.
I have realized that when it comes to being sober I am extremely sensitive and can’t go on for much during vaginal sex. The most I’ve lasted was around 15 minutes including foreplay and just yesterday I lasted about 5 minutes, but it could’ve been because I hadn’t had sex in a while. However, this doesn’t seem to be an issue when I’m getting head. I can go on for quite some time during oral sex while sober.
Anyway, when I drink alcohol I lose a lot of the sensitivity and I can have vaginal sex for about 2-4 hours with foreplay which my partner and I enjoy very much but I don’t want this to to be the only way I can enjoy sex. Part of me believes this is mental because I do okay during oral sex when sober. Is there a way I can work around this? Does anybody have a similar experience?
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r/sex I (M25) have not been sexually active for a long time. I barely lost my virginity a few months ago and I’ve maintained the same sexual partner since so I’m barely figuring myself out. I have realized that when it comes to being sober I am extremely sensitive and can’t go on for much during vaginal sex. The most I’ve lasted was around 15 minutes including foreplay and just yesterday I lasted about 5 minutes, but it could’ve been because I hadn’t had sex in a while. However, this doesn’t seem to be an issue when I’m getting head. I can go on for quite some time during oral sex while sober. Anyway, when I drink alcohol I lose a lot of the sensitivity and I can have vaginal sex for about 2-4 hours with foreplay which my partner and I enjoy very much but I don’t want this to to be the only way I can enjoy sex. Part of me believes this is mental because I do okay during oral sex when sober. Is there a way I can work around this? Does anybody have a similar experience? submitted by /u/IAmAFunnyLlama [link] [comments]
I (M25) have not been sexually active for a long time. I barely lost my virginity a few months ago and I’ve maintained the same sexual partner since so I’m barely figuring myself out.
I have realized that when it comes to being sober I am extremely sensitive and can’t go on for much during vaginal sex. The most I’ve lasted was around 15 minutes including foreplay and just yesterday I lasted about 5 minutes, but it could’ve been because I hadn’t had sex in a while. However, this doesn’t seem to be an issue when I’m getting head. I can go on for quite some time during oral sex while sober.
Anyway, when I drink alcohol I lose a lot of the sensitivity and I can have vaginal sex for about 2-4 hours with foreplay which my partner and I enjoy very much but I don’t want this to to be the only way I can enjoy sex. Part of me believes this is mental because I do okay during oral sex when sober. Is there a way I can work around this? Does anybody have a similar experience?
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