Unable to feel anything from sex with person i’m dating, and don’t want her to feel bad about it /u/chin_of_socrates Sex

I (M25) have been dating someone (F21) for the past week. We’ve had intense sex almost every time we’ve met, but I have yet to orgasm a single time. She can only orgasm from clit stimulation, so I usually finish off by eating her out or fingering her until she orgasms. I haven’t felt nearly anything from penetrative sex, and it’s an exercise in mindfulness to stay hard while we are going at it.

I don’t mind that things are this way for now, but she is growing self-conscious because she has yet to make me orgasm. The two of us are extremely compatible in terms of personality and interest, and I don’t mind giving more than I am receiving during sex, so I don’t want to damage our relationship by making her think she is bad at sex. However, I faked coming last time we had sex to make her feel secure. I’m not really sure where to go with this.

I (M25) have been dating someone (F21) for the past week. We’ve had intense sex almost every time we’ve met, but I have yet to orgasm a single time. She can only orgasm from clit stimulation, so I usually finish off by eating her out or fingering her until she orgasms. I haven’t felt nearly anything from penetrative sex, and it’s an exercise in mindfulness to stay hard while we are going at it.

I don’t mind that things are this way for now, but she is growing self-conscious because she has yet to make me orgasm. The two of us are extremely compatible in terms of personality and interest, and I don’t mind giving more than I am receiving during sex, so I don’t want to damage our relationship by making her think she is bad at sex. However, I faked coming last time we had sex to make her feel secure. I’m not really sure where to go with this.