I was bit of a ‘fuckboy’ and I have had a lot of ONS and fuckbuddy. Don’t jerk off (can cum like this though) or watch porn. I have had 40-50 partners and never been able to orgasm, condom, raw, head, etc. The common issues I see are porn addiction or death grip.
Honestly not a big problem for casual relations but I recently made it official with a girl and now that we have fucked 5 times and I can’t cum after an hour+ she gets very insecure. Like causing considerable strain on relationship.
I think part of it is I view sex as a performance? I am a perfectionist in most of my life and I always try to create a great experience for the woman so as to not have a bad reputation. I am always anxious about making everything go right and I guess I don’t relax.
What doesn’t help at all is 90% of women, if not after the first time then the second, start getting upset and asking 100 times “are you gonna cum, are you close” etc. At that point it’s just shot, 0% chance I can nut now. Not sure how to communicate this to gf without sounding like an asshole.
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r/sex I was bit of a ‘fuckboy’ and I have had a lot of ONS and fuckbuddy. Don’t jerk off (can cum like this though) or watch porn. I have had 40-50 partners and never been able to orgasm, condom, raw, head, etc. The common issues I see are porn addiction or death grip. Honestly not a big problem for casual relations but I recently made it official with a girl and now that we have fucked 5 times and I can’t cum after an hour+ she gets very insecure. Like causing considerable strain on relationship. I think part of it is I view sex as a performance? I am a perfectionist in most of my life and I always try to create a great experience for the woman so as to not have a bad reputation. I am always anxious about making everything go right and I guess I don’t relax. What doesn’t help at all is 90% of women, if not after the first time then the second, start getting upset and asking 100 times “are you gonna cum, are you close” etc. At that point it’s just shot, 0% chance I can nut now. Not sure how to communicate this to gf without sounding like an asshole. submitted by /u/College_ProfHelp [link] [comments]
I was bit of a ‘fuckboy’ and I have had a lot of ONS and fuckbuddy. Don’t jerk off (can cum like this though) or watch porn. I have had 40-50 partners and never been able to orgasm, condom, raw, head, etc. The common issues I see are porn addiction or death grip.
Honestly not a big problem for casual relations but I recently made it official with a girl and now that we have fucked 5 times and I can’t cum after an hour+ she gets very insecure. Like causing considerable strain on relationship.
I think part of it is I view sex as a performance? I am a perfectionist in most of my life and I always try to create a great experience for the woman so as to not have a bad reputation. I am always anxious about making everything go right and I guess I don’t relax.
What doesn’t help at all is 90% of women, if not after the first time then the second, start getting upset and asking 100 times “are you gonna cum, are you close” etc. At that point it’s just shot, 0% chance I can nut now. Not sure how to communicate this to gf without sounding like an asshole.
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