I (m) have a difficult time reaching orgasm, and a remarkably hard time when its purely from oral. /u/squirtleforpresident Sex

I tend to have some sort of mental block going on, and its the worst with oral. Part of me thinks I probably have underlying issues and I need therapy. But for the here and now, my girlfriend is incredibly upset and insecure about this. This woman is a god damn hero down there, its impressive. Alas, I have only given her what she wants once, of a good couple dozen attempts.

That was the first time in my life (orgasm from oral)

Does anybody have any advice on this? It sucks for me, I feel like it sucks even more for her, and at the end of the night, believe it or not, its almost like there was too much sucking going on.

I tend to have some sort of mental block going on, and its the worst with oral. Part of me thinks I probably have underlying issues and I need therapy. But for the here and now, my girlfriend is incredibly upset and insecure about this. This woman is a god damn hero down there, its impressive. Alas, I have only given her what she wants once, of a good couple dozen attempts.

That was the first time in my life (orgasm from oral)

Does anybody have any advice on this? It sucks for me, I feel like it sucks even more for her, and at the end of the night, believe it or not, its almost like there was too much sucking going on.