My boyfriend can’t cum with me /u/Electrical-Painting7 Sex

This might be long but basically my boyfriend really struggles to cum with me, he thinks he’s desensitised himself by wanking too much but taking a break hasn’t helped at all. I just feel like he isn’t that attracted to me, he’s never acting like he can’t wait to get into bed with me it always seems a bit forced. He says he feels expectation that he can’t live up to because I once said I like it rough. I want to feel desired, I’ve tried lots of different things to try and make it happen but we ended up arguing about it today and now it’s probably going to be even worse 😞 The feeling of rejection is a lot, I’m tempted just to say we each sort ourselves out to take the pressure off because it’s just more stress than it’s worth at the moment

This might be long but basically my boyfriend really struggles to cum with me, he thinks he’s desensitised himself by wanking too much but taking a break hasn’t helped at all. I just feel like he isn’t that attracted to me, he’s never acting like he can’t wait to get into bed with me it always seems a bit forced. He says he feels expectation that he can’t live up to because I once said I like it rough. I want to feel desired, I’ve tried lots of different things to try and make it happen but we ended up arguing about it today and now it’s probably going to be even worse 😞 The feeling of rejection is a lot, I’m tempted just to say we each sort ourselves out to take the pressure off because it’s just more stress than it’s worth at the moment