So I (F) have deep desire to peg or give a prostrate massage to my bf (if I get one, currently single). Iike it turns me on too to give that much pleasure to him. Now some people mock me and say ‘he will just like it better and leave you for a man’ So I was wondering do men who enjoy prostrate massage/pegging eventually turn out to be gay/ lose interest in vaginal penetration. And my they say that in a ‘getting a lesson for doing something weird’
For me it’s just a natural want. I’ve read prostrate orgasms are much more intense than penis stimulation so why wouldn’t I want my bf to feel that? (Unless he is uncomfortable of course, it’s about him not me).
But my friends comments bother me cuz I have a huge fear of abandonment/cheating (that I’m working on overcoming) and it triggered me and I ended up with spiralling thoughts of every single scenario where I get cheated on.
So I’m asking is it weird for me to find giving prostrate stimulation arousing? Are straight/bi men likely to stay with their cis gfs if they like it?
If he does réalisé he prefers real dicks, it will hurt but better to find out early on and part ways in search of happier lives but is that a given. Just looking for some insights
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r/sex So I (F) have deep desire to peg or give a prostrate massage to my bf (if I get one, currently single). Iike it turns me on too to give that much pleasure to him. Now some people mock me and say ‘he will just like it better and leave you for a man’ So I was wondering do men who enjoy prostrate massage/pegging eventually turn out to be gay/ lose interest in vaginal penetration. And my they say that in a ‘getting a lesson for doing something weird’ For me it’s just a natural want. I’ve read prostrate orgasms are much more intense than penis stimulation so why wouldn’t I want my bf to feel that? (Unless he is uncomfortable of course, it’s about him not me). But my friends comments bother me cuz I have a huge fear of abandonment/cheating (that I’m working on overcoming) and it triggered me and I ended up with spiralling thoughts of every single scenario where I get cheated on. So I’m asking is it weird for me to find giving prostrate stimulation arousing? Are straight/bi men likely to stay with their cis gfs if they like it? If he does réalisé he prefers real dicks, it will hurt but better to find out early on and part ways in search of happier lives but is that a given. Just looking for some insights submitted by /u/fryfrybae [link] [comments]
So I (F) have deep desire to peg or give a prostrate massage to my bf (if I get one, currently single). Iike it turns me on too to give that much pleasure to him. Now some people mock me and say ‘he will just like it better and leave you for a man’ So I was wondering do men who enjoy prostrate massage/pegging eventually turn out to be gay/ lose interest in vaginal penetration. And my they say that in a ‘getting a lesson for doing something weird’
For me it’s just a natural want. I’ve read prostrate orgasms are much more intense than penis stimulation so why wouldn’t I want my bf to feel that? (Unless he is uncomfortable of course, it’s about him not me).
But my friends comments bother me cuz I have a huge fear of abandonment/cheating (that I’m working on overcoming) and it triggered me and I ended up with spiralling thoughts of every single scenario where I get cheated on.
So I’m asking is it weird for me to find giving prostrate stimulation arousing? Are straight/bi men likely to stay with their cis gfs if they like it?
If he does réalisé he prefers real dicks, it will hurt but better to find out early on and part ways in search of happier lives but is that a given. Just looking for some insights
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