Is there a nice way to tell someone one of their kinks turns you off and you don’t want them to do it to you anymore? /u/scarlet_rasine Sex

I (28F) have been dating a really great, hot guy (28M) for about three months now. He’s the best I’ve ever had in bed and I have very few complaints in the bedroom.

The only thing I really don’t like is a kink he has. He says he really loves smelling my butt. Like, he wants to put his nose in my butt crack and sniff away.

I consider myself super open-minded, so the first time he brought it up I was a bit thrown but said I’d try it. I let him do it briefly and then we moved on to other things quickly so I didn’t really care.

However, it’s getting more and more common. On Valentine’s Day he offered to give me a massage and spent like 5 minutes aggressively sniffing my butt crack through my panties. It made me literally queasy/turned off and I finally awkwardly laughed and said “okay, I can’t really concentrate on the massage with you doing that” and he laughed it off and stopped.

I don’t want to yuck someone’s yum but I’ve definitely decided I don’t find this sexy or attractive and it makes me uncomfortable when he does it.

I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but it is my body he’s doing this with, and I want to very kindly but firmly say I’m not okay with it anymore. Any tips?

I (28F) have been dating a really great, hot guy (28M) for about three months now. He’s the best I’ve ever had in bed and I have very few complaints in the bedroom.

The only thing I really don’t like is a kink he has. He says he really loves smelling my butt. Like, he wants to put his nose in my butt crack and sniff away.

I consider myself super open-minded, so the first time he brought it up I was a bit thrown but said I’d try it. I let him do it briefly and then we moved on to other things quickly so I didn’t really care.

However, it’s getting more and more common. On Valentine’s Day he offered to give me a massage and spent like 5 minutes aggressively sniffing my butt crack through my panties. It made me literally queasy/turned off and I finally awkwardly laughed and said “okay, I can’t really concentrate on the massage with you doing that” and he laughed it off and stopped.

I don’t want to yuck someone’s yum but I’ve definitely decided I don’t find this sexy or attractive and it makes me uncomfortable when he does it.

I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but it is my body he’s doing this with, and I want to very kindly but firmly say I’m not okay with it anymore. Any tips?