I [21M] feel very rejected by gf [21F] pretty constantly the last two weeks /u/Snolow Sex

We are a very new relationship about 2 months in. We have been spending nearly every night together at either one of our places.

Last week we didn’t do anything for maybe 5 days and after talking about how I felt we had it for the next 2 days. After that it’s been another 5 days of nothing and now her period came today. She doesn’t want to do anything while on her period.

Before me she thought she was asexual and never really liked sex. Now she really likes it. But her drive is just naturally a lot lower. Every night it’s either too late, she’s tired, has cramps, or just isn’t feeling it.

Everything about the relationship is perfect except this. I’m so attracted to her and it’s such a punch in the face every night being rejected. She also never wants to do it in the day and only at night. I understand if she’s tired or has cramps or doesn’t want to do it on her period. But either way it still bothers me. And everytime I bring it up she’s very understanding…but I just can’t help but think what if the whole relationship is like this. I literally can’t stand it and it makes me feel so shitty about my self like I can’t turn on my own girlfriend. I’m not used to this because my last three gfs were jumping on me at any chance, and I don’t feel a hint of that from her.

I know it’s just how she is and not me. And I don’t want to break up with her because of this. And she listens and says that it is just these two weeks. But idk

We are a very new relationship about 2 months in. We have been spending nearly every night together at either one of our places.

Last week we didn’t do anything for maybe 5 days and after talking about how I felt we had it for the next 2 days. After that it’s been another 5 days of nothing and now her period came today. She doesn’t want to do anything while on her period.

Before me she thought she was asexual and never really liked sex. Now she really likes it. But her drive is just naturally a lot lower. Every night it’s either too late, she’s tired, has cramps, or just isn’t feeling it.

Everything about the relationship is perfect except this. I’m so attracted to her and it’s such a punch in the face every night being rejected. She also never wants to do it in the day and only at night. I understand if she’s tired or has cramps or doesn’t want to do it on her period. But either way it still bothers me. And everytime I bring it up she’s very understanding…but I just can’t help but think what if the whole relationship is like this. I literally can’t stand it and it makes me feel so shitty about my self like I can’t turn on my own girlfriend. I’m not used to this because my last three gfs were jumping on me at any chance, and I don’t feel a hint of that from her.

I know it’s just how she is and not me. And I don’t want to break up with her because of this. And she listens and says that it is just these two weeks. But idk