I love to be tied up but not sure to ask for it again /u/ExistingApartment830 Sex

So, I’ve asked my bf to spank me in the past and he tried it once but he said he doesn’t like to do that to me so I said it was ok and never asked for it again. I’ve sometimes asked him to choke me and he does it very softly so I never ask for it, I see how he fears to hurt me and I don’t feel he is turned on by it. However he sometimes asks me if I want him to dominate me and I don’t know how to answer because I know he doesn’t like those things and I feel like forcing him to do something against his nature. He asked me again last night and I told him I’d love to be tied up, which is something we have never done. He tied my hands very softly, the knot slided after a while but I had time to orgasm many times because being dominated in some way makes me just surrender and focus in my bodily sensations instead of focusing on all the things I dislike on my body or try to control myself on some way. Should ask for that again or wait for him to talk about it? because I don’t want to make him do things which doesn’t turn him on and I’m always the one who asks for doing other stuff in bed. I also see how he is always very soft and would like him to be the opposite, but maybe that is not his nature, how can I talk about this without making him feel inadequate? I don’t want him to think I’m weird or into weird stuff. Thank you.

So, I’ve asked my bf to spank me in the past and he tried it once but he said he doesn’t like to do that to me so I said it was ok and never asked for it again. I’ve sometimes asked him to choke me and he does it very softly so I never ask for it, I see how he fears to hurt me and I don’t feel he is turned on by it. However he sometimes asks me if I want him to dominate me and I don’t know how to answer because I know he doesn’t like those things and I feel like forcing him to do something against his nature. He asked me again last night and I told him I’d love to be tied up, which is something we have never done. He tied my hands very softly, the knot slided after a while but I had time to orgasm many times because being dominated in some way makes me just surrender and focus in my bodily sensations instead of focusing on all the things I dislike on my body or try to control myself on some way. Should ask for that again or wait for him to talk about it? because I don’t want to make him do things which doesn’t turn him on and I’m always the one who asks for doing other stuff in bed. I also see how he is always very soft and would like him to be the opposite, but maybe that is not his nature, how can I talk about this without making him feel inadequate? I don’t want him to think I’m weird or into weird stuff. Thank you.