I (26F) married for 2 years and together with my husband for 5. I am fine having sex with him 3-5 days a week, it’s gone down from twice a day sometimes when we first met. We have some mind blowing moments in bed but sometimes it can be kind of average too, like lacking in extreme passion. I know he’s attracted to me but I don’t always feel the extreme desire from him.
I’m not interested in anyone else. But I have an extremely handsome boss who is a bit physically larger than my husband (same athletic build though) and has a more dominant but sometimes angry/volatile personality. We have a great professional relationship, nothing else. Secretly though I know someone like him can bring the energy and extreme passion and desire for me in bed. I want my husband to be like that in the bedroom but I am not gonna leave my husband for someone like that because I prefer a confident but balanced partner like my husband, instead of passionate but volatile like my boss.
Even if I asked my husband to be more aggressive in bed he would do it but it would feel purely mechanical and forced. It wouldn’t suit his personality or how things have been going for us sexually. And he’s not as physically domineering or passionate. I want him to be all those things but idk if he even wants to or can pull it off
Classic dilemma of wanting a confident but calmer partner but the bad boy in bed…I don’t want to make the classic mistake of leaving someone great but sometimes I feel not desired sexually, not feeling like a woman
I don’t know what to do, I’m not going to make the immature decision to leave my marriage. Too many people in my life chose excitement over stability and being an equal in their marriage. But I just want to feel pursued more during sex
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r/sex I (26F) married for 2 years and together with my husband for 5. I am fine having sex with him 3-5 days a week, it’s gone down from twice a day sometimes when we first met. We have some mind blowing moments in bed but sometimes it can be kind of average too, like lacking in extreme passion. I know he’s attracted to me but I don’t always feel the extreme desire from him. I’m not interested in anyone else. But I have an extremely handsome boss who is a bit physically larger than my husband (same athletic build though) and has a more dominant but sometimes angry/volatile personality. We have a great professional relationship, nothing else. Secretly though I know someone like him can bring the energy and extreme passion and desire for me in bed. I want my husband to be like that in the bedroom but I am not gonna leave my husband for someone like that because I prefer a confident but balanced partner like my husband, instead of passionate but volatile like my boss. Even if I asked my husband to be more aggressive in bed he would do it but it would feel purely mechanical and forced. It wouldn’t suit his personality or how things have been going for us sexually. And he’s not as physically domineering or passionate. I want him to be all those things but idk if he even wants to or can pull it off Classic dilemma of wanting a confident but calmer partner but the bad boy in bed…I don’t want to make the classic mistake of leaving someone great but sometimes I feel not desired sexually, not feeling like a woman I don’t know what to do, I’m not going to make the immature decision to leave my marriage. Too many people in my life chose excitement over stability and being an equal in their marriage. But I just want to feel pursued more during sex submitted by /u/intimacyangel [link] [comments]
I (26F) married for 2 years and together with my husband for 5. I am fine having sex with him 3-5 days a week, it’s gone down from twice a day sometimes when we first met. We have some mind blowing moments in bed but sometimes it can be kind of average too, like lacking in extreme passion. I know he’s attracted to me but I don’t always feel the extreme desire from him.
I’m not interested in anyone else. But I have an extremely handsome boss who is a bit physically larger than my husband (same athletic build though) and has a more dominant but sometimes angry/volatile personality. We have a great professional relationship, nothing else. Secretly though I know someone like him can bring the energy and extreme passion and desire for me in bed. I want my husband to be like that in the bedroom but I am not gonna leave my husband for someone like that because I prefer a confident but balanced partner like my husband, instead of passionate but volatile like my boss.
Even if I asked my husband to be more aggressive in bed he would do it but it would feel purely mechanical and forced. It wouldn’t suit his personality or how things have been going for us sexually. And he’s not as physically domineering or passionate. I want him to be all those things but idk if he even wants to or can pull it off
Classic dilemma of wanting a confident but calmer partner but the bad boy in bed…I don’t want to make the classic mistake of leaving someone great but sometimes I feel not desired sexually, not feeling like a woman
I don’t know what to do, I’m not going to make the immature decision to leave my marriage. Too many people in my life chose excitement over stability and being an equal in their marriage. But I just want to feel pursued more during sex
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