AITA for not longer wanting to mess around with my girlfriend /u/hs77273772 Sex

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So my girlfriend (22F) and myself (22M) are new to the dating life.

My girlfriend has never had any form of sexual contact while I’ve only had a little. We began dating 4 months ago

Before we started out she told me she was waiting till marriage to have sex and asked if that was a dealbreaker I told her it wouldn’t be and I respect it.

However as we began dating we began pushing the limits and it came the point where it became more intimate than expected. And where we wouldn’t have penetrative sex but more of me penetrating through her underwear for instance . And began doing hands stuff. If that makes sense.

Penetrating through clothing can make me uncomfortable physically but she enjoys it. I don’t feel any pleasure from this. I asked her for oral a few times but she says that will happen another time or maybe in the future.

It got to a point where it became the same routine. And it felt that I was doing a lot of work to please her but she made the rules.

So after last time I told her that I will no longer be doing it this kind of way and that I’ll only continue sex if some element of penetration or oral is added to it. Where I can get pleasure. I told her nothing about us will change. I also told her that waiting for marriage is something I won’t consider now that we have been doing so much stuff.

AITA?

NSFW ALERT

So my girlfriend (22F) and myself (22M) are new to the dating life.

My girlfriend has never had any form of sexual contact while I’ve only had a little. We began dating 4 months ago

Before we started out she told me she was waiting till marriage to have sex and asked if that was a dealbreaker I told her it wouldn’t be and I respect it.

However as we began dating we began pushing the limits and it came the point where it became more intimate than expected. And where we wouldn’t have penetrative sex but more of me penetrating through her underwear for instance . And began doing hands stuff. If that makes sense.

Penetrating through clothing can make me uncomfortable physically but she enjoys it. I don’t feel any pleasure from this. I asked her for oral a few times but she says that will happen another time or maybe in the future.

It got to a point where it became the same routine. And it felt that I was doing a lot of work to please her but she made the rules.

So after last time I told her that I will no longer be doing it this kind of way and that I’ll only continue sex if some element of penetration or oral is added to it. Where I can get pleasure. I told her nothing about us will change. I also told her that waiting for marriage is something I won’t consider now that we have been doing so much stuff.

AITA?