So I (28F) lost my virginity at 21. I’ve probably had sex only about 20 times since then and whenever I do, it’s super uncomfortable. My partner always has to stretch me out beforehand, even though I get super wet. And I always have to go slow and take time to adjust on the initial entry. After that though, it just gets worse. It feels like his penis is hitting my bladder or my cervix. I feel like I have to pee or pass gas and sometimes I get that feeling where my stomach drops and I lose my breath. It makes it so hard to keep my mind in the moment because I’m worried the whole time or focused on how uncomfortable it is. I masturbate frequently but I rarely ever penetrate myself, not even with my fingers. I did just buy a 6 inch dildo though to see if that helps but so far it’s mostly uncomfortable too. When I pull it out, it rubs uncomfortably against the top of my vagina and there’s like a bump or bend that I have to pull it passed. Is this normal? I enjoy the feeling of being full, but it’s the actual in and out that feels so weird.
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r/sex So I (28F) lost my virginity at 21. I’ve probably had sex only about 20 times since then and whenever I do, it’s super uncomfortable. My partner always has to stretch me out beforehand, even though I get super wet. And I always have to go slow and take time to adjust on the initial entry. After that though, it just gets worse. It feels like his penis is hitting my bladder or my cervix. I feel like I have to pee or pass gas and sometimes I get that feeling where my stomach drops and I lose my breath. It makes it so hard to keep my mind in the moment because I’m worried the whole time or focused on how uncomfortable it is. I masturbate frequently but I rarely ever penetrate myself, not even with my fingers. I did just buy a 6 inch dildo though to see if that helps but so far it’s mostly uncomfortable too. When I pull it out, it rubs uncomfortably against the top of my vagina and there’s like a bump or bend that I have to pull it passed. Is this normal? I enjoy the feeling of being full, but it’s the actual in and out that feels so weird. submitted by /u/wardrobeintocamelot [link] [comments]
So I (28F) lost my virginity at 21. I’ve probably had sex only about 20 times since then and whenever I do, it’s super uncomfortable. My partner always has to stretch me out beforehand, even though I get super wet. And I always have to go slow and take time to adjust on the initial entry. After that though, it just gets worse. It feels like his penis is hitting my bladder or my cervix. I feel like I have to pee or pass gas and sometimes I get that feeling where my stomach drops and I lose my breath. It makes it so hard to keep my mind in the moment because I’m worried the whole time or focused on how uncomfortable it is. I masturbate frequently but I rarely ever penetrate myself, not even with my fingers. I did just buy a 6 inch dildo though to see if that helps but so far it’s mostly uncomfortable too. When I pull it out, it rubs uncomfortably against the top of my vagina and there’s like a bump or bend that I have to pull it passed. Is this normal? I enjoy the feeling of being full, but it’s the actual in and out that feels so weird.
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