i don’t think i can orgasm /u/AzaleaArtz Sex

this is no doubt gonna be a weird one, but i (19f) just cannot bring myself to orgasm, not even once

i’ve been masterbating since i was 13 or 14, it didn’t exactly feel good, but also wasn’t the worse feeling in the world. it felt better as i got older. just mentioning that so it’s clear i’m not really new to the whole thing.

but i’ve tried everything i can think of: fingers, toys, clit, nipples, hell even anal. and while it all does feel so good, i can’t bring myself over that edge?

i hear many women can’t cum without clit simulation but i think mine is broken. i’m not exactly sensitive down there, so rubbing or even using vibrations doesn’t exactly feel good to me. it doesn’t hurt, but it’s like putting vibrations on your arm, nothing special. same with fingering, if i’m just going in and out i don’t get any positive feelings, and it only feels good when i curl my fingers into a certain spot. can’t do it for too long or my fingers cramp. with my toy i can hit that spot easily, and i love the way it feels, but no matter how long i do it, it still doesn’t work and eventually starts to become uncomfortable.

i have no reason to believe it’s from some sort or trauma. i also heard that it could also be like tickling yourself, and it’s not the same compared to when someone else does it?

im just very tired of this feeling, and now that i’m getting into a relationship i want to try and solve it before it becomes a problem

this is no doubt gonna be a weird one, but i (19f) just cannot bring myself to orgasm, not even once

i’ve been masterbating since i was 13 or 14, it didn’t exactly feel good, but also wasn’t the worse feeling in the world. it felt better as i got older. just mentioning that so it’s clear i’m not really new to the whole thing.

but i’ve tried everything i can think of: fingers, toys, clit, nipples, hell even anal. and while it all does feel so good, i can’t bring myself over that edge?

i hear many women can’t cum without clit simulation but i think mine is broken. i’m not exactly sensitive down there, so rubbing or even using vibrations doesn’t exactly feel good to me. it doesn’t hurt, but it’s like putting vibrations on your arm, nothing special. same with fingering, if i’m just going in and out i don’t get any positive feelings, and it only feels good when i curl my fingers into a certain spot. can’t do it for too long or my fingers cramp. with my toy i can hit that spot easily, and i love the way it feels, but no matter how long i do it, it still doesn’t work and eventually starts to become uncomfortable.

i have no reason to believe it’s from some sort or trauma. i also heard that it could also be like tickling yourself, and it’s not the same compared to when someone else does it?

im just very tired of this feeling, and now that i’m getting into a relationship i want to try and solve it before it becomes a problem