Bf is smaller and lasts less long than previous bf I’ve had. This means he doesn’t reach my spot so I don’t have piv orgasms. He also has a lower libido than I do. This means I don’t get sex more than a few times a month and physiologically I need a few times a week or day.
I told him about this not as a complaint but as an open honest point of discussion within a relationship where two adults are involved and both care about the others comfort and enjoyment.
Most of the time he does everything he can before or after he cums to get me off.
We have tried many positions to see if any work for me because the one I normally orgasm in doesn’t work with him. He always cums during sex so it is not one sided fun where mine is the only pleasure that’s important.
But here’s the weird part, we’ve spoken about it a few times hence trying new positions etc. We spoke about it again the other night while talking about other things and he told me he doesn’t care if he Never has penetrative sex with me or orgasms because he wants to try get me off.
Being someone who is used to men being sexually motivated I find this very odd and concerning. Why would a man say he doesn’t care if he never ever has sex or sticks his penis in me?
He is also not someone who will come out if I tell him I’m horny and ask if he would come over to have sex and spend some time together. This was also very concerning for me. Now to hear the above its even weirder.
Men, what is your take please
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r/sex Bf is smaller and lasts less long than previous bf I’ve had. This means he doesn’t reach my spot so I don’t have piv orgasms. He also has a lower libido than I do. This means I don’t get sex more than a few times a month and physiologically I need a few times a week or day. I told him about this not as a complaint but as an open honest point of discussion within a relationship where two adults are involved and both care about the others comfort and enjoyment. Most of the time he does everything he can before or after he cums to get me off. We have tried many positions to see if any work for me because the one I normally orgasm in doesn’t work with him. He always cums during sex so it is not one sided fun where mine is the only pleasure that’s important. But here’s the weird part, we’ve spoken about it a few times hence trying new positions etc. We spoke about it again the other night while talking about other things and he told me he doesn’t care if he Never has penetrative sex with me or orgasms because he wants to try get me off. Being someone who is used to men being sexually motivated I find this very odd and concerning. Why would a man say he doesn’t care if he never ever has sex or sticks his penis in me? He is also not someone who will come out if I tell him I’m horny and ask if he would come over to have sex and spend some time together. This was also very concerning for me. Now to hear the above its even weirder. Men, what is your take please submitted by /u/Ancient_Jackfruit508 [link] [comments]
Bf is smaller and lasts less long than previous bf I’ve had. This means he doesn’t reach my spot so I don’t have piv orgasms. He also has a lower libido than I do. This means I don’t get sex more than a few times a month and physiologically I need a few times a week or day.
I told him about this not as a complaint but as an open honest point of discussion within a relationship where two adults are involved and both care about the others comfort and enjoyment.
Most of the time he does everything he can before or after he cums to get me off.
We have tried many positions to see if any work for me because the one I normally orgasm in doesn’t work with him. He always cums during sex so it is not one sided fun where mine is the only pleasure that’s important.
But here’s the weird part, we’ve spoken about it a few times hence trying new positions etc. We spoke about it again the other night while talking about other things and he told me he doesn’t care if he Never has penetrative sex with me or orgasms because he wants to try get me off.
Being someone who is used to men being sexually motivated I find this very odd and concerning. Why would a man say he doesn’t care if he never ever has sex or sticks his penis in me?
He is also not someone who will come out if I tell him I’m horny and ask if he would come over to have sex and spend some time together. This was also very concerning for me. Now to hear the above its even weirder.
Men, what is your take please
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