My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We know each others kinks, have dirty talked plenty of times, and have had sexual moments (ex. fingering, handjob) in the beginning of our relationship but now it’s very rare. She’s afraid of pregnancy because her brother accidentally had a child in his teens but she’s getting an IUD and we’ve already discussed several different methods we’d like to try that don’t involve the risk of pregnancy. Because of school and work we can only spend time together around once a week so it’s definitely hurts a little when I’m in the mood and she isn’t. I crave the physical and emotional connection that comes with it and I’ve started to become more and more sexually frustrated lately. We had a discussion on my feelings and she said that she wants to enjoy herself in that way too, but that she doesn’t want to be uncomfortable around me because I’m important to her. Eventually we agreed to have a scheduled day where we try different things out to see what works. What can I do to help my girlfriend feel more comfortable being in these types of situations with me?
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r/sex My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We know each others kinks, have dirty talked plenty of times, and have had sexual moments (ex. fingering, handjob) in the beginning of our relationship but now it’s very rare. She’s afraid of pregnancy because her brother accidentally had a child in his teens but she’s getting an IUD and we’ve already discussed several different methods we’d like to try that don’t involve the risk of pregnancy. Because of school and work we can only spend time together around once a week so it’s definitely hurts a little when I’m in the mood and she isn’t. I crave the physical and emotional connection that comes with it and I’ve started to become more and more sexually frustrated lately. We had a discussion on my feelings and she said that she wants to enjoy herself in that way too, but that she doesn’t want to be uncomfortable around me because I’m important to her. Eventually we agreed to have a scheduled day where we try different things out to see what works. What can I do to help my girlfriend feel more comfortable being in these types of situations with me? submitted by /u/chadthundercock78 [link] [comments]
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We know each others kinks, have dirty talked plenty of times, and have had sexual moments (ex. fingering, handjob) in the beginning of our relationship but now it’s very rare. She’s afraid of pregnancy because her brother accidentally had a child in his teens but she’s getting an IUD and we’ve already discussed several different methods we’d like to try that don’t involve the risk of pregnancy. Because of school and work we can only spend time together around once a week so it’s definitely hurts a little when I’m in the mood and she isn’t. I crave the physical and emotional connection that comes with it and I’ve started to become more and more sexually frustrated lately. We had a discussion on my feelings and she said that she wants to enjoy herself in that way too, but that she doesn’t want to be uncomfortable around me because I’m important to her. Eventually we agreed to have a scheduled day where we try different things out to see what works. What can I do to help my girlfriend feel more comfortable being in these types of situations with me?
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