What’s going on? What’s wrong with me?? Why can’t I enjoy it? /u/I_Fuckin_Love_Reeses Sex

I started masturbating a few days before my 17th birthday as I had phimosis and was very religious (aren’t anymore) so I couldn’t masturbate even if I wanted to. I have a problem that’s been lasting for almost a year now and pretty much nothing has changed since then. Also I’ve never had an orgasm.

Before masturbating for the first time, I used to be very horny. Watching porn/seeing someone naked on the picture, reading some sexual stuff etc. was really turning me on. My heart started beating faster, had an erection etc.

But now, idk why, it has changed. Now when I look at porn or read some stuff I may or may not get an erection and that’s it. It doesn’t turn me on anymore, sometimes I even don’t feel anything.

While my body is getting horny pretty often, my mind isn’t. I just feel I want to cum and that’s it.

When I masturbate I usually don’t feel anything during it or after. Sometimes I may get aroused and my heart beats faster, but that’s it, and usually it’s gone after I start masturbating. I can’t go any further, I don’t feel any tension building up, my breath doesn’t change etc. and when I finish I don’t have orgasm.

I have no problems getting an erection or ejaculating. But I can’t really focus on what I’m doing, like my brain doesn’t care about what’s going on, I can’t “turn myself on” or enjoy it as much as I’d want to. I really want to experience the orgasm but can’t reach it no matter what I do.

I’m pretty sure sure I don’t have depression/anxiety or hormone imbalances. Also I don’t take any meds except for vitamin D. I like my body. I think there’s some mental barrier that I can’t break.

When I try really hard I can get aroused and keep my heart beating fast for the whole time. Yesterday I tried trying different kinks and techniques together and I managed to literally shoot cum for the first time, and I was really shocked because I completely didn’t expect it to be so intense and even my legs were shaking after that. I’m not sure but maybe even my breath was a little faster. But still even tho it was the most “intense” thing I’ve experienced I pretty sure I didn’t have the orgasm, at least I didn’t feel much. I’m starting to lose hope for it as I don’t think I will get so aroused like yesterday anytime soon :(.

Also I masturbate sometimes every day, sometimes once per week. Mostly it’s once every 3 days. And I have wet dreams when I don’t masturbate.

I have tried many things for example edging, but it doesn’t really help. The only options that give me some hope that it may work are doing it when really drunk/high or try hookup with someone. But I don’t think I’ll be able to try any of these anytime soon.

Why can’t I orgasm like almost every guy that masturbates? Why can’t I get turned on anymore? It really makes me very sad when I think about it or hear that someone doesn’t even have to try or care about it and still can reach mind blowing pleasure almost every time with no problems.

I started masturbating a few days before my 17th birthday as I had phimosis and was very religious (aren’t anymore) so I couldn’t masturbate even if I wanted to. I have a problem that’s been lasting for almost a year now and pretty much nothing has changed since then. Also I’ve never had an orgasm.

Before masturbating for the first time, I used to be very horny. Watching porn/seeing someone naked on the picture, reading some sexual stuff etc. was really turning me on. My heart started beating faster, had an erection etc.

But now, idk why, it has changed. Now when I look at porn or read some stuff I may or may not get an erection and that’s it. It doesn’t turn me on anymore, sometimes I even don’t feel anything.

While my body is getting horny pretty often, my mind isn’t. I just feel I want to cum and that’s it.

When I masturbate I usually don’t feel anything during it or after. Sometimes I may get aroused and my heart beats faster, but that’s it, and usually it’s gone after I start masturbating. I can’t go any further, I don’t feel any tension building up, my breath doesn’t change etc. and when I finish I don’t have orgasm.

I have no problems getting an erection or ejaculating. But I can’t really focus on what I’m doing, like my brain doesn’t care about what’s going on, I can’t “turn myself on” or enjoy it as much as I’d want to. I really want to experience the orgasm but can’t reach it no matter what I do.

I’m pretty sure sure I don’t have depression/anxiety or hormone imbalances. Also I don’t take any meds except for vitamin D. I like my body. I think there’s some mental barrier that I can’t break.

When I try really hard I can get aroused and keep my heart beating fast for the whole time. Yesterday I tried trying different kinks and techniques together and I managed to literally shoot cum for the first time, and I was really shocked because I completely didn’t expect it to be so intense and even my legs were shaking after that. I’m not sure but maybe even my breath was a little faster. But still even tho it was the most “intense” thing I’ve experienced I pretty sure I didn’t have the orgasm, at least I didn’t feel much. I’m starting to lose hope for it as I don’t think I will get so aroused like yesterday anytime soon :(.

Also I masturbate sometimes every day, sometimes once per week. Mostly it’s once every 3 days. And I have wet dreams when I don’t masturbate.

I have tried many things for example edging, but it doesn’t really help. The only options that give me some hope that it may work are doing it when really drunk/high or try hookup with someone. But I don’t think I’ll be able to try any of these anytime soon.

Why can’t I orgasm like almost every guy that masturbates? Why can’t I get turned on anymore? It really makes me very sad when I think about it or hear that someone doesn’t even have to try or care about it and still can reach mind blowing pleasure almost every time with no problems.