My (32F) SO (36M) who I was supposedly serious with hurt me badly to the point of almost breaking up. Now Won’t stop talking about sex. /u/torturedDaisy Sex

Basically the title. Thought me SO and I were serious. He did something that hurt me badly and kind of opened my eyes to a lot of things he has done that hurt me that I just overlooked (not taking accountability for things, lack of empathy, walking over boundaries, etc.) . We’re still together but I’m still hurt. But yes, previously sex between us was absolutely amazing and earth shattering.

Now I’m just not in the mood. When the hurt was new (about a week) one of his arguments was that we haven’t been having as much sex (we had had sex two days ago and the last week).

I told him I can’t get in the mood when my feelings are hurt. Fast forward to today, we meet up on Valentine’s Day and just talk. He wants to see me tomorrow. Sends me a text about “Goodnight sweetheart, hoping to give you a valentines blow job and hopefully receive one”

Is all that’s important to him about me sex? Or is this his way of somehow apologizing?

Basically the title. Thought me SO and I were serious. He did something that hurt me badly and kind of opened my eyes to a lot of things he has done that hurt me that I just overlooked (not taking accountability for things, lack of empathy, walking over boundaries, etc.) . We’re still together but I’m still hurt. But yes, previously sex between us was absolutely amazing and earth shattering.

Now I’m just not in the mood. When the hurt was new (about a week) one of his arguments was that we haven’t been having as much sex (we had had sex two days ago and the last week).

I told him I can’t get in the mood when my feelings are hurt. Fast forward to today, we meet up on Valentine’s Day and just talk. He wants to see me tomorrow. Sends me a text about “Goodnight sweetheart, hoping to give you a valentines blow job and hopefully receive one”

Is all that’s important to him about me sex? Or is this his way of somehow apologizing?