Hey, does anyone have similar issues or idea what to do? I am a woman who has always dated men and the sex just does not turn me on. I can make myself cum but there is nothing sexy about it. I have had sex with women too and it felt the same.
The only way I can get turned on is if I think of two men together. I could never masturbate imagining myself with someone, I could only get turned on by imagining fictional men. When I figured that out a few years back, I watched a lot of gay porn too, but I have since stopped, I have not watched any porn in months. I used to read tons of gay stories too.
I have not had sex in more then a year even though I am always horny. Just imagining finding a man or a woman and having sex with them turns me off. I only masturbate like once a month because of it. I want to have a sex life and need to figure out how to get turned on by straight or lesbian sex.
I have been trying to think of men and women together, or two women together while masturbating but it still does not turn me on at all. I have found all the men and women I have been with attractive, I just wish I had found the actual act of sex hot, and not just a practical way to get off.
The only advice I had found was that some FtM people feel like that and that it could be a gender issue, but that is not my case. I like my body and experience no dysphoria. I actually wish I was more feminine, not masculine. I don’t see myself as one of the men in my fantasies, I don’t want to be one.
There is no way for me to actually have a satisfying sex life like this and that makes me sad. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.
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r/sex Hey, does anyone have similar issues or idea what to do? I am a woman who has always dated men and the sex just does not turn me on. I can make myself cum but there is nothing sexy about it. I have had sex with women too and it felt the same. The only way I can get turned on is if I think of two men together. I could never masturbate imagining myself with someone, I could only get turned on by imagining fictional men. When I figured that out a few years back, I watched a lot of gay porn too, but I have since stopped, I have not watched any porn in months. I used to read tons of gay stories too. I have not had sex in more then a year even though I am always horny. Just imagining finding a man or a woman and having sex with them turns me off. I only masturbate like once a month because of it. I want to have a sex life and need to figure out how to get turned on by straight or lesbian sex. I have been trying to think of men and women together, or two women together while masturbating but it still does not turn me on at all. I have found all the men and women I have been with attractive, I just wish I had found the actual act of sex hot, and not just a practical way to get off. The only advice I had found was that some FtM people feel like that and that it could be a gender issue, but that is not my case. I like my body and experience no dysphoria. I actually wish I was more feminine, not masculine. I don’t see myself as one of the men in my fantasies, I don’t want to be one. There is no way for me to actually have a satisfying sex life like this and that makes me sad. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you. submitted by /u/throwawayschmex [link] [comments]
Hey, does anyone have similar issues or idea what to do? I am a woman who has always dated men and the sex just does not turn me on. I can make myself cum but there is nothing sexy about it. I have had sex with women too and it felt the same.
The only way I can get turned on is if I think of two men together. I could never masturbate imagining myself with someone, I could only get turned on by imagining fictional men. When I figured that out a few years back, I watched a lot of gay porn too, but I have since stopped, I have not watched any porn in months. I used to read tons of gay stories too.
I have not had sex in more then a year even though I am always horny. Just imagining finding a man or a woman and having sex with them turns me off. I only masturbate like once a month because of it. I want to have a sex life and need to figure out how to get turned on by straight or lesbian sex.
I have been trying to think of men and women together, or two women together while masturbating but it still does not turn me on at all. I have found all the men and women I have been with attractive, I just wish I had found the actual act of sex hot, and not just a practical way to get off.
The only advice I had found was that some FtM people feel like that and that it could be a gender issue, but that is not my case. I like my body and experience no dysphoria. I actually wish I was more feminine, not masculine. I don’t see myself as one of the men in my fantasies, I don’t want to be one.
There is no way for me to actually have a satisfying sex life like this and that makes me sad. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.
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