Hello, I have tried searching a lot of forums and answers for my questions, and honestly have gotten so many different ones that I don’t even know who to ask at this point (can’t go to actual doctors).
In hopes of finding an answer or a relevant/alike situatuon, I’ll tell you what my case is:
Me and my boyfriend who love each other very much have decided to have unprotected sex. He holds himself very well all the time and does not ejaculate if he doesn’t want it. However, while having sex we think (and know) that some amount of precum came out of his penis (while being inside me).
I do not know if I was on my ovulation period or not. I am using a tracker of my period which says that I will be ovulating in 2 days after sex, but the discharge that is usually present while I am ovulating already occured 2 days before sex.
This is what we did during/after the act so we could minimise the chances of pregnancy:
After he got an erection and felt that precum came out in his underwear, he peed and cleaned his penis after, so it would be safe to insert it in me and no pre-ejaculate fluid would be present (which we all know that it may contain sperm, so let’s just assume it does 100%)
We tried one or two different positions sideways and down, I finished twice (He still did not) and forced him to put his penis away since it started hurting me already.
After that we both switched to standing up and I offered him to rub his penis against my ass to finish, which he agreed upon. However, we got so intimate that he put it inside me again, and that’s why I am worried.
Again, after a minute or so it started to hurt and I forced him to pull out, when he did so, his penis had bubbly gray-ish pre-cum look alike fluid (Which I do not know what couldve been, maybe it had some of his semen in it, or maybe I released that from my vagina…) This worries me…
After he ejaculated outside on my face, we both went to clean ourselves. I peed, cleaned the outsides of my vagina, which also released some discharge and got dressed.
An hour or hour a half after, we bought an emergency contraceptive pill (Escapelle) which I used immediately.
A morning after that (about 12 hours after sex) I had breast tenderness and stomach spasm symptoms (which I’ve read that are present in the EC Pill side effects)
How safe am I or what are the chances of me getting pregnant? Does the Contraceptive even work or do anything if I was on my ovulation too? Should I be really worried or are the chances really low? This happened to us for the first time btw.
Thank you…
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r/sex Hello, I have tried searching a lot of forums and answers for my questions, and honestly have gotten so many different ones that I don’t even know who to ask at this point (can’t go to actual doctors). In hopes of finding an answer or a relevant/alike situatuon, I’ll tell you what my case is: Me and my boyfriend who love each other very much have decided to have unprotected sex. He holds himself very well all the time and does not ejaculate if he doesn’t want it. However, while having sex we think (and know) that some amount of precum came out of his penis (while being inside me). I do not know if I was on my ovulation period or not. I am using a tracker of my period which says that I will be ovulating in 2 days after sex, but the discharge that is usually present while I am ovulating already occured 2 days before sex. This is what we did during/after the act so we could minimise the chances of pregnancy: After he got an erection and felt that precum came out in his underwear, he peed and cleaned his penis after, so it would be safe to insert it in me and no pre-ejaculate fluid would be present (which we all know that it may contain sperm, so let’s just assume it does 100%) We tried one or two different positions sideways and down, I finished twice (He still did not) and forced him to put his penis away since it started hurting me already. After that we both switched to standing up and I offered him to rub his penis against my ass to finish, which he agreed upon. However, we got so intimate that he put it inside me again, and that’s why I am worried. Again, after a minute or so it started to hurt and I forced him to pull out, when he did so, his penis had bubbly gray-ish pre-cum look alike fluid (Which I do not know what couldve been, maybe it had some of his semen in it, or maybe I released that from my vagina…) This worries me… After he ejaculated outside on my face, we both went to clean ourselves. I peed, cleaned the outsides of my vagina, which also released some discharge and got dressed. An hour or hour a half after, we bought an emergency contraceptive pill (Escapelle) which I used immediately. A morning after that (about 12 hours after sex) I had breast tenderness and stomach spasm symptoms (which I’ve read that are present in the EC Pill side effects) How safe am I or what are the chances of me getting pregnant? Does the Contraceptive even work or do anything if I was on my ovulation too? Should I be really worried or are the chances really low? This happened to us for the first time btw. Thank you… submitted by /u/dedaflex [link] [comments]
Hello, I have tried searching a lot of forums and answers for my questions, and honestly have gotten so many different ones that I don’t even know who to ask at this point (can’t go to actual doctors).
In hopes of finding an answer or a relevant/alike situatuon, I’ll tell you what my case is:
Me and my boyfriend who love each other very much have decided to have unprotected sex. He holds himself very well all the time and does not ejaculate if he doesn’t want it. However, while having sex we think (and know) that some amount of precum came out of his penis (while being inside me).
I do not know if I was on my ovulation period or not. I am using a tracker of my period which says that I will be ovulating in 2 days after sex, but the discharge that is usually present while I am ovulating already occured 2 days before sex.
This is what we did during/after the act so we could minimise the chances of pregnancy:
After he got an erection and felt that precum came out in his underwear, he peed and cleaned his penis after, so it would be safe to insert it in me and no pre-ejaculate fluid would be present (which we all know that it may contain sperm, so let’s just assume it does 100%)
We tried one or two different positions sideways and down, I finished twice (He still did not) and forced him to put his penis away since it started hurting me already.
After that we both switched to standing up and I offered him to rub his penis against my ass to finish, which he agreed upon. However, we got so intimate that he put it inside me again, and that’s why I am worried.
Again, after a minute or so it started to hurt and I forced him to pull out, when he did so, his penis had bubbly gray-ish pre-cum look alike fluid (Which I do not know what couldve been, maybe it had some of his semen in it, or maybe I released that from my vagina…) This worries me…
After he ejaculated outside on my face, we both went to clean ourselves. I peed, cleaned the outsides of my vagina, which also released some discharge and got dressed.
An hour or hour a half after, we bought an emergency contraceptive pill (Escapelle) which I used immediately.
A morning after that (about 12 hours after sex) I had breast tenderness and stomach spasm symptoms (which I’ve read that are present in the EC Pill side effects)
How safe am I or what are the chances of me getting pregnant? Does the Contraceptive even work or do anything if I was on my ovulation too? Should I be really worried or are the chances really low? This happened to us for the first time btw.
Thank you…
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