So my 27M girlfriend 27F is going to therapy to overcome this, but we have stopped having sex for about 2 months. She masturbates and pleasures herself on her own, but she is just adamantly against doing anything sexual with me. It’s hard enough to even have an extended makeout with her. We used to have sex prior, but it has stopped completely. She says it isn’t due to loss of attraction and she does want to be with me, but she says when the idea of sex comes about she just gets extremely anxious and insecure. She says that she has had this anxiety before with previous partners but she hasn’t been with someone long enough or had consistent sex with anyone besides me, so she has never faced a situation where she stopped having sex with her partner. She says that she doesn’t know what it is stemming from and I don’t know how to help her in this situation. We both want a relationship with a healthy sex life, but I feel like there is an issue with me and that she doesn’t want me.
Has anyone overcome this before or dealt with a similar situation?
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r/sex So my 27M girlfriend 27F is going to therapy to overcome this, but we have stopped having sex for about 2 months. She masturbates and pleasures herself on her own, but she is just adamantly against doing anything sexual with me. It’s hard enough to even have an extended makeout with her. We used to have sex prior, but it has stopped completely. She says it isn’t due to loss of attraction and she does want to be with me, but she says when the idea of sex comes about she just gets extremely anxious and insecure. She says that she has had this anxiety before with previous partners but she hasn’t been with someone long enough or had consistent sex with anyone besides me, so she has never faced a situation where she stopped having sex with her partner. She says that she doesn’t know what it is stemming from and I don’t know how to help her in this situation. We both want a relationship with a healthy sex life, but I feel like there is an issue with me and that she doesn’t want me. Has anyone overcome this before or dealt with a similar situation? submitted by /u/BigBoiSouth [link] [comments]
So my 27M girlfriend 27F is going to therapy to overcome this, but we have stopped having sex for about 2 months. She masturbates and pleasures herself on her own, but she is just adamantly against doing anything sexual with me. It’s hard enough to even have an extended makeout with her. We used to have sex prior, but it has stopped completely. She says it isn’t due to loss of attraction and she does want to be with me, but she says when the idea of sex comes about she just gets extremely anxious and insecure. She says that she has had this anxiety before with previous partners but she hasn’t been with someone long enough or had consistent sex with anyone besides me, so she has never faced a situation where she stopped having sex with her partner. She says that she doesn’t know what it is stemming from and I don’t know how to help her in this situation. We both want a relationship with a healthy sex life, but I feel like there is an issue with me and that she doesn’t want me.
Has anyone overcome this before or dealt with a similar situation?
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