my bf (26M) and I (21F) booked a hotel for valentines & 3 monthsary. we promised not to have intercourse before our 1 year anniversary, so nothing penetrative happened, but what did happen was that he jerked off onto my chest area and came, but immediately after we went to shower everything off. i’m unsure if we used cold or hot water, but i didn’t touch my genitals with anything with semen in it. my concern is that the water may have rinsed down the semen into my vagina, and i could get pregnant. it was during my fertile window so now i’m super duper paranoid about this and have been spending the entire day researching on the possibilities/probability of getting pregnant.
i have told my concerns to my boyfriend and he has been super supportive, and gave me reassurance. we even planned a backup plan if i did happen to get pregnant, which was to get an abortion. he told me the chances are super low, but as a risk averse person (especially in these kinds of situations), i still need some reassurance to help me stop overthinking and be paranoid about this because it’s really draining my mental health. for now, my plan is to wait for my next period and hope it comes on time. else, i will take a pregnancy test but i really hope it doesn’t go down to that…
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r/sex my bf (26M) and I (21F) booked a hotel for valentines & 3 monthsary. we promised not to have intercourse before our 1 year anniversary, so nothing penetrative happened, but what did happen was that he jerked off onto my chest area and came, but immediately after we went to shower everything off. i’m unsure if we used cold or hot water, but i didn’t touch my genitals with anything with semen in it. my concern is that the water may have rinsed down the semen into my vagina, and i could get pregnant. it was during my fertile window so now i’m super duper paranoid about this and have been spending the entire day researching on the possibilities/probability of getting pregnant. i have told my concerns to my boyfriend and he has been super supportive, and gave me reassurance. we even planned a backup plan if i did happen to get pregnant, which was to get an abortion. he told me the chances are super low, but as a risk averse person (especially in these kinds of situations), i still need some reassurance to help me stop overthinking and be paranoid about this because it’s really draining my mental health. for now, my plan is to wait for my next period and hope it comes on time. else, i will take a pregnancy test but i really hope it doesn’t go down to that… submitted by /u/throwaway1843993 [link] [comments]
my bf (26M) and I (21F) booked a hotel for valentines & 3 monthsary. we promised not to have intercourse before our 1 year anniversary, so nothing penetrative happened, but what did happen was that he jerked off onto my chest area and came, but immediately after we went to shower everything off. i’m unsure if we used cold or hot water, but i didn’t touch my genitals with anything with semen in it. my concern is that the water may have rinsed down the semen into my vagina, and i could get pregnant. it was during my fertile window so now i’m super duper paranoid about this and have been spending the entire day researching on the possibilities/probability of getting pregnant.
i have told my concerns to my boyfriend and he has been super supportive, and gave me reassurance. we even planned a backup plan if i did happen to get pregnant, which was to get an abortion. he told me the chances are super low, but as a risk averse person (especially in these kinds of situations), i still need some reassurance to help me stop overthinking and be paranoid about this because it’s really draining my mental health. for now, my plan is to wait for my next period and hope it comes on time. else, i will take a pregnancy test but i really hope it doesn’t go down to that…
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