My girlfriend [29F] and I [31M] live in different states. While we were seeing each other casually, she emphasized multiple time that she cannot imagine herself being monogamous. She had multiple partners at that stage. However, at some point we became exclusive and she told me she does see her having sex with other people any more. Fast forward two years and we see each other mainly during weekends because we stil live in different cities. She is on the pill so we do not use condoms at all. Last week I found one condom missing from the box at her place. I asked her gently about it and she offered an explanation. There was raw emotion, some anger about my doubt (that she interpreted as accusation), and tears about my distrust.
She basically told me she put it on a dildo while she was masturbating recently. I replied she had not asked me to put one when we played with it be. To this she replied she used it anally (we never used it that way, but we do anal without a condom). This explanation bugs me a lot and because I find it very unlike her.
I would like to ask you guys for your opinion and recommendation. How unusal is it to use condoms on vibrators when girls play with themselves? Do you find it plausible? Have you been in similar situations? Also, I would appreciate it a lot if you have any advice on how to check, question or talk to her about it.
[This is a repost as my previous attempt was deleted by the admins, probably due to too emotional language]
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r/sex My girlfriend [29F] and I [31M] live in different states. While we were seeing each other casually, she emphasized multiple time that she cannot imagine herself being monogamous. She had multiple partners at that stage. However, at some point we became exclusive and she told me she does see her having sex with other people any more. Fast forward two years and we see each other mainly during weekends because we stil live in different cities. She is on the pill so we do not use condoms at all. Last week I found one condom missing from the box at her place. I asked her gently about it and she offered an explanation. There was raw emotion, some anger about my doubt (that she interpreted as accusation), and tears about my distrust. She basically told me she put it on a dildo while she was masturbating recently. I replied she had not asked me to put one when we played with it be. To this she replied she used it anally (we never used it that way, but we do anal without a condom). This explanation bugs me a lot and because I find it very unlike her. I would like to ask you guys for your opinion and recommendation. How unusal is it to use condoms on vibrators when girls play with themselves? Do you find it plausible? Have you been in similar situations? Also, I would appreciate it a lot if you have any advice on how to check, question or talk to her about it. [This is a repost as my previous attempt was deleted by the admins, probably due to too emotional language] submitted by /u/Pretty_Following_898 [link] [comments]
My girlfriend [29F] and I [31M] live in different states. While we were seeing each other casually, she emphasized multiple time that she cannot imagine herself being monogamous. She had multiple partners at that stage. However, at some point we became exclusive and she told me she does see her having sex with other people any more. Fast forward two years and we see each other mainly during weekends because we stil live in different cities. She is on the pill so we do not use condoms at all. Last week I found one condom missing from the box at her place. I asked her gently about it and she offered an explanation. There was raw emotion, some anger about my doubt (that she interpreted as accusation), and tears about my distrust.
She basically told me she put it on a dildo while she was masturbating recently. I replied she had not asked me to put one when we played with it be. To this she replied she used it anally (we never used it that way, but we do anal without a condom). This explanation bugs me a lot and because I find it very unlike her.
I would like to ask you guys for your opinion and recommendation. How unusal is it to use condoms on vibrators when girls play with themselves? Do you find it plausible? Have you been in similar situations? Also, I would appreciate it a lot if you have any advice on how to check, question or talk to her about it.
[This is a repost as my previous attempt was deleted by the admins, probably due to too emotional language]
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