25F/26M – ive been with my partner for 8 months now and we were long distance most of the time so sex was not as frequent and he is the shy type, so am I so we weren’t that experimental/vocal about sexual matters between us. Now, we just started living together about a week into it he started slapping my ass here and there but not hard then a month ago he would slap my ass so hard every time he gets the chance and then started “playfully” choking me and holding me against the wall and “spanking me” sometimes as a playful punishment and I thought perhaps he has a choking kink for the first time a few days ago I asked him to choked me during sex and he was so quick to do it and I could see it aroused him so much and made him more aggressive (during sex and cum very fast) & he two days ago he pulled my hair so hard on his own. He’s never done that before even when I asked for him to pull my hair twice before, he would lightly pull it and let it go but this time he just did it on his own. Especially if we are having an argument, for most of them even the serious ones he gets sexually aroused after and wants to “make up sex” but becomes more dominant. He’s mentioned hand cuffs once and tying me up and was a little shy mentioning it but got excited when I said I have some.
Is this a kink? I’ve asked him if he has any kinks or fantasies and he says he doesn’t but I don’t think he’s AS comfortable telling me yet or idk
I like it but I want to know if it’s a kink or what is it and what can I do to make it more fun?
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r/sex 25F/26M – ive been with my partner for 8 months now and we were long distance most of the time so sex was not as frequent and he is the shy type, so am I so we weren’t that experimental/vocal about sexual matters between us. Now, we just started living together about a week into it he started slapping my ass here and there but not hard then a month ago he would slap my ass so hard every time he gets the chance and then started “playfully” choking me and holding me against the wall and “spanking me” sometimes as a playful punishment and I thought perhaps he has a choking kink for the first time a few days ago I asked him to choked me during sex and he was so quick to do it and I could see it aroused him so much and made him more aggressive (during sex and cum very fast) & he two days ago he pulled my hair so hard on his own. He’s never done that before even when I asked for him to pull my hair twice before, he would lightly pull it and let it go but this time he just did it on his own. Especially if we are having an argument, for most of them even the serious ones he gets sexually aroused after and wants to “make up sex” but becomes more dominant. He’s mentioned hand cuffs once and tying me up and was a little shy mentioning it but got excited when I said I have some. Is this a kink? I’ve asked him if he has any kinks or fantasies and he says he doesn’t but I don’t think he’s AS comfortable telling me yet or idk I like it but I want to know if it’s a kink or what is it and what can I do to make it more fun? submitted by /u/Anoonymous7777 [link] [comments]
25F/26M – ive been with my partner for 8 months now and we were long distance most of the time so sex was not as frequent and he is the shy type, so am I so we weren’t that experimental/vocal about sexual matters between us. Now, we just started living together about a week into it he started slapping my ass here and there but not hard then a month ago he would slap my ass so hard every time he gets the chance and then started “playfully” choking me and holding me against the wall and “spanking me” sometimes as a playful punishment and I thought perhaps he has a choking kink for the first time a few days ago I asked him to choked me during sex and he was so quick to do it and I could see it aroused him so much and made him more aggressive (during sex and cum very fast) & he two days ago he pulled my hair so hard on his own. He’s never done that before even when I asked for him to pull my hair twice before, he would lightly pull it and let it go but this time he just did it on his own. Especially if we are having an argument, for most of them even the serious ones he gets sexually aroused after and wants to “make up sex” but becomes more dominant. He’s mentioned hand cuffs once and tying me up and was a little shy mentioning it but got excited when I said I have some.
Is this a kink? I’ve asked him if he has any kinks or fantasies and he says he doesn’t but I don’t think he’s AS comfortable telling me yet or idk
I like it but I want to know if it’s a kink or what is it and what can I do to make it more fun?
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