I feel super big and clumsy (F31) /u/yxcvbna Sex

I’m average built, 5’9” and always had some issues with my body image, I always felt too tall for a girl and often feel like I’m moving a bit.. clumsy and not as smooth and graceful as a woman, especially when it comes to sexy time, could/would.

Now I’m with a guy who’s also shorter than me (and probably even weighs 5kg less or so) – and again I keep feeling too “big”.. I try to ignore it and focus on the sex itself but especially when I’m on top, what I usually quite enjoy, I feel like a giant.

On a rational level I am aware of how ridiculous this is but maybe you could help me get out of this weird thinking by sharing your experiences and ideas on how to get over this? Thanks.

I’m average built, 5’9” and always had some issues with my body image, I always felt too tall for a girl and often feel like I’m moving a bit.. clumsy and not as smooth and graceful as a woman, especially when it comes to sexy time, could/would.

Now I’m with a guy who’s also shorter than me (and probably even weighs 5kg less or so) – and again I keep feeling too “big”.. I try to ignore it and focus on the sex itself but especially when I’m on top, what I usually quite enjoy, I feel like a giant.

On a rational level I am aware of how ridiculous this is but maybe you could help me get out of this weird thinking by sharing your experiences and ideas on how to get over this? Thanks.