My boyfriend says men are only visual creatures. How true is this? /u/Helpful_Crocodile657 Sex

We are hardly ever intimate anymore because he says men are visual and if I don’t dress revealing or create fantasy, then he doesn’t feel like having sex and isn’t in the mood. Despite me initiating, being handsy, flirting, sleeping naked next to him, he says that all men are this way. I’ve had plenty of relationships in the past, so I can’t believe this is entirely true, but those ones have had problems too and now I’m second guessing maybe this could be some of it.

I work from home and want to be comfortable. I dress more revealing for the right occasion, but I’m not going to do it going to the grocery store, etc.

Please tell me what makes you want to be regularly intimate with your partner. Is it visual? Something they do or say often? Just them existing around you?

We are hardly ever intimate anymore because he says men are visual and if I don’t dress revealing or create fantasy, then he doesn’t feel like having sex and isn’t in the mood. Despite me initiating, being handsy, flirting, sleeping naked next to him, he says that all men are this way. I’ve had plenty of relationships in the past, so I can’t believe this is entirely true, but those ones have had problems too and now I’m second guessing maybe this could be some of it.

I work from home and want to be comfortable. I dress more revealing for the right occasion, but I’m not going to do it going to the grocery store, etc.

Please tell me what makes you want to be regularly intimate with your partner. Is it visual? Something they do or say often? Just them existing around you?