Hello! Semi new to redit (25F) and Im wondering if anybody has an sex anxiety tips. I have been celibate for 2 years as I was unpacking a lot of childhood body trauma and truely understanding what my body wants and desires. I think in a sexual situation I will be able to set my boundaries. However, I just recently started dating again and I’m finding myself being extremely reserved and my whole body kind of shuts down because I’m thinking of the date leading to sex and me having to have that conversation. Or me not having the courage to have that conversation and just being taken advantage of again etc etc. So, I’m wondering if anybody has any advice. Especially for casual lesbian relationships because I honestly don’t know when to disclose my anxiety about the topic. I think if i had a long term partner I could trust it would be easier but I fear I wont be able to approach a romantic relationship and get to that point if I am so reserved. Like not even flirty bro Im just so anxious I just talk and I wait for themto make the move. But im finding out, as im dating women, they actually read and respect your body language-(the ones ive been with) and are not making a move. So no moves are made and im horny, anxious and upset. Help me pls
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r/sex Hello! Semi new to redit (25F) and Im wondering if anybody has an sex anxiety tips. I have been celibate for 2 years as I was unpacking a lot of childhood body trauma and truely understanding what my body wants and desires. I think in a sexual situation I will be able to set my boundaries. However, I just recently started dating again and I’m finding myself being extremely reserved and my whole body kind of shuts down because I’m thinking of the date leading to sex and me having to have that conversation. Or me not having the courage to have that conversation and just being taken advantage of again etc etc. So, I’m wondering if anybody has any advice. Especially for casual lesbian relationships because I honestly don’t know when to disclose my anxiety about the topic. I think if i had a long term partner I could trust it would be easier but I fear I wont be able to approach a romantic relationship and get to that point if I am so reserved. Like not even flirty bro Im just so anxious I just talk and I wait for themto make the move. But im finding out, as im dating women, they actually read and respect your body language-(the ones ive been with) and are not making a move. So no moves are made and im horny, anxious and upset. Help me pls submitted by /u/Mysterious_Dance9638 [link] [comments]
Hello! Semi new to redit (25F) and Im wondering if anybody has an sex anxiety tips. I have been celibate for 2 years as I was unpacking a lot of childhood body trauma and truely understanding what my body wants and desires. I think in a sexual situation I will be able to set my boundaries. However, I just recently started dating again and I’m finding myself being extremely reserved and my whole body kind of shuts down because I’m thinking of the date leading to sex and me having to have that conversation. Or me not having the courage to have that conversation and just being taken advantage of again etc etc. So, I’m wondering if anybody has any advice. Especially for casual lesbian relationships because I honestly don’t know when to disclose my anxiety about the topic. I think if i had a long term partner I could trust it would be easier but I fear I wont be able to approach a romantic relationship and get to that point if I am so reserved. Like not even flirty bro Im just so anxious I just talk and I wait for themto make the move. But im finding out, as im dating women, they actually read and respect your body language-(the ones ive been with) and are not making a move. So no moves are made and im horny, anxious and upset. Help me pls
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