Hey all . Im a male pretty open minded but pretty shy with posting so this takes some guts .
I have always been very confident in bed . I was with a partner who had a fisting fetish . (towards me ) And I thought to my self you know what ? why the hell. not ? im running the room 95% of the time sure . What I realised is it first and foremost takes alot of efforts . I hurts like hell and you are extremely vulnerable .
For a long time I was not sure about it but seeing the my partners joy was really priceless .
I have made people try things in bed but i always made them feel extremely safe .
What happened was I never felt safe , it got abit to rough at some points where I felt bad .
So i guess my questions are the following .
1) was I wrong in thinking if course a woman would like to do this it makes sence to be selfish sometimes . ( what i always wanted to hear was thanks for a great time babe last night which i never did ) . I on the other hand make a point of doing that .
2) Was this just the wrong person ?
3) Just to have abit of a laugh . How on earth to you get pass the knuckles ? Cause no mater how many times I could never get passed that point
Thank you so much
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r/sex Hey all . Im a male pretty open minded but pretty shy with posting so this takes some guts . I have always been very confident in bed . I was with a partner who had a fisting fetish . (towards me ) And I thought to my self you know what ? why the hell. not ? im running the room 95% of the time sure . What I realised is it first and foremost takes alot of efforts . I hurts like hell and you are extremely vulnerable . For a long time I was not sure about it but seeing the my partners joy was really priceless . I have made people try things in bed but i always made them feel extremely safe . What happened was I never felt safe , it got abit to rough at some points where I felt bad . So i guess my questions are the following . 1) was I wrong in thinking if course a woman would like to do this it makes sence to be selfish sometimes . ( what i always wanted to hear was thanks for a great time babe last night which i never did ) . I on the other hand make a point of doing that . 2) Was this just the wrong person ? 3) Just to have abit of a laugh . How on earth to you get pass the knuckles ? Cause no mater how many times I could never get passed that point Thank you so much submitted by /u/liougi [link] [comments]
Hey all . Im a male pretty open minded but pretty shy with posting so this takes some guts .
I have always been very confident in bed . I was with a partner who had a fisting fetish . (towards me ) And I thought to my self you know what ? why the hell. not ? im running the room 95% of the time sure . What I realised is it first and foremost takes alot of efforts . I hurts like hell and you are extremely vulnerable .
For a long time I was not sure about it but seeing the my partners joy was really priceless .
I have made people try things in bed but i always made them feel extremely safe .
What happened was I never felt safe , it got abit to rough at some points where I felt bad .
So i guess my questions are the following .
1) was I wrong in thinking if course a woman would like to do this it makes sence to be selfish sometimes . ( what i always wanted to hear was thanks for a great time babe last night which i never did ) . I on the other hand make a point of doing that .
2) Was this just the wrong person ?
3) Just to have abit of a laugh . How on earth to you get pass the knuckles ? Cause no mater how many times I could never get passed that point
Thank you so much
submitted by /u/liougi
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