Am I doing something wrong? /u/Reasonable_Sugar6705 Sex

(Male on male, ive already experienced homophobic answers here so please just dont read if you are not into ir) My boyfriend is the bottom. We have never had sex because we are just waiting for the right moment. However, we do like exploring each others bodies since we cant pass that line right now. I have no problem eating his ass, he likes the rimjob I make, but Ive been struggling to finger him. He feels weird and im afraid he does not like the way I do it at all. I just need to know if im doing something wrong because I want to improve and make this pleasurable for him. Since he is a virgin, i didnt use more than one finger. I dont know if I am not using enough lube and I am even more afraid I cant find his prostate at all, because of my short fingers. I do it in very slow motions but he says he is feeling too much and this is bugging him. I really need some help on this matter because I want to be able to do that for my boy.

(Male on male, ive already experienced homophobic answers here so please just dont read if you are not into ir) My boyfriend is the bottom. We have never had sex because we are just waiting for the right moment. However, we do like exploring each others bodies since we cant pass that line right now. I have no problem eating his ass, he likes the rimjob I make, but Ive been struggling to finger him. He feels weird and im afraid he does not like the way I do it at all. I just need to know if im doing something wrong because I want to improve and make this pleasurable for him. Since he is a virgin, i didnt use more than one finger. I dont know if I am not using enough lube and I am even more afraid I cant find his prostate at all, because of my short fingers. I do it in very slow motions but he says he is feeling too much and this is bugging him. I really need some help on this matter because I want to be able to do that for my boy.