I’m open to socializing with Kristi, but I’m not comfortable in a setting where she is there as your date. I’m willing to try going to an event with you and she is also there. I don’t see any likely situations where we’re going to be able to do that to help me normalize and adjust to this.
I’m not to a point where I feel OK for you to go home with her instead of me. That is all kinds of abandonment triggers. It’s not about any of the mental emotional romance kissing kink play sleepovers of course one person can’t fill all of those needs. But the sex … It makes me physically sick thinking about you together sexually.
I feel like I should be able to give you everything you need in sex. What it says about me as a person, my worth, desirability, that you still need sex with her even though we’re being intimate.
This is all tied into the sex without barriers thing. (Allergies aside) There being something that’s ours, that you want ME, that I’m worth something to you. That you picked me because I’m SOMEbody to you not just someBODY. That I’m not interchangeable or an afterthought.
- People are saying this means I don’t want to be poly but I’m not “poly enough“ even though I have multiple romantic partners, but a single sexual partner. I identify as a demisexual and was raised in a very oppressive religious environment with a lot of shame.*
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r/sex I’m open to socializing with Kristi, but I’m not comfortable in a setting where she is there as your date. I’m willing to try going to an event with you and she is also there. I don’t see any likely situations where we’re going to be able to do that to help me normalize and adjust to this. I’m not to a point where I feel OK for you to go home with her instead of me. That is all kinds of abandonment triggers. It’s not about any of the mental emotional romance kissing kink play sleepovers of course one person can’t fill all of those needs. But the sex … It makes me physically sick thinking about you together sexually. I feel like I should be able to give you everything you need in sex. What it says about me as a person, my worth, desirability, that you still need sex with her even though we’re being intimate. This is all tied into the sex without barriers thing. (Allergies aside) There being something that’s ours, that you want ME, that I’m worth something to you. That you picked me because I’m SOMEbody to you not just someBODY. That I’m not interchangeable or an afterthought. People are saying this means I don’t want to be poly but I’m not “poly enough“ even though I have multiple romantic partners, but a single sexual partner. I identify as a demisexual and was raised in a very oppressive religious environment with a lot of shame.* submitted by /u/Dramonique [link] [comments]
I’m open to socializing with Kristi, but I’m not comfortable in a setting where she is there as your date. I’m willing to try going to an event with you and she is also there. I don’t see any likely situations where we’re going to be able to do that to help me normalize and adjust to this.
I’m not to a point where I feel OK for you to go home with her instead of me. That is all kinds of abandonment triggers. It’s not about any of the mental emotional romance kissing kink play sleepovers of course one person can’t fill all of those needs. But the sex … It makes me physically sick thinking about you together sexually.
I feel like I should be able to give you everything you need in sex. What it says about me as a person, my worth, desirability, that you still need sex with her even though we’re being intimate.
This is all tied into the sex without barriers thing. (Allergies aside) There being something that’s ours, that you want ME, that I’m worth something to you. That you picked me because I’m SOMEbody to you not just someBODY. That I’m not interchangeable or an afterthought.
- People are saying this means I don’t want to be poly but I’m not “poly enough“ even though I have multiple romantic partners, but a single sexual partner. I identify as a demisexual and was raised in a very oppressive religious environment with a lot of shame.*
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