Odd questions about orgasms /u/fishersfun1 Sex

I was just thinking about a conversation that I had while going through a break up a couple of years ago. She (35F, then) said we lacked sexual chemistry. I (43M, then) responded that she orgasmed usually twice (always through oral) every time we were intimate and that I usually orgasmed as well. Her response was “Even raed women orgasm. Not that I’m saying you raed me or anything like that.” It was an odd way to say it, but I was used to her directness. She basically meant that just because she orgasmed didn’t necessarily mean that she enjoyed having sex with me.

Question 1. In general, what are your thoughts on this conversation?

Question 2. Women – Have you felt like this frequently? That just because you’re orgasming doesn’t necessarily mean that you enjoyed the sex/intimacy?

I was just thinking about a conversation that I had while going through a break up a couple of years ago. She (35F, then) said we lacked sexual chemistry. I (43M, then) responded that she orgasmed usually twice (always through oral) every time we were intimate and that I usually orgasmed as well. Her response was “Even raed women orgasm. Not that I’m saying you raed me or anything like that.” It was an odd way to say it, but I was used to her directness. She basically meant that just because she orgasmed didn’t necessarily mean that she enjoyed having sex with me.

Question 1. In general, what are your thoughts on this conversation?

Question 2. Women – Have you felt like this frequently? That just because you’re orgasming doesn’t necessarily mean that you enjoyed the sex/intimacy?