Hello, a few days ago I was co-tested for HPV and got a positive result for high risk type (not the 16 nor the 18). I’ve inmediately set a date with my gynecologist, but until then… I feel quite sad and scared.
I’ve been processing it for a few days and reading the whole lot of things I might need to do in order to put it to sleep (which I already do… don’t drink nor smoke, and have a very active life), but… I’m scared for my dating life. Will I ever be able to practice sex again… without a condom? Give and receive oral? (Don’t misinterpret me, I don’t do one-night stands, I mean with a long-term partner)
Sincerely… it feels like it’s the end of that kind of pleasure, because… well, I don’t even know if I’ll ever be able to find a man who wants to be with me with this kind of thing (most I know don’t want to use condom either…)
Sorry… it’s just… a lot to digest. I’d like kind and supporting words, because those days have been hell. How is life for us after this? I’d like to know of people experiencing this or being partner of someone with it. I accept private messages if you need privacy.
Thank you.
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r/sex Hello, a few days ago I was co-tested for HPV and got a positive result for high risk type (not the 16 nor the 18). I’ve inmediately set a date with my gynecologist, but until then… I feel quite sad and scared. I’ve been processing it for a few days and reading the whole lot of things I might need to do in order to put it to sleep (which I already do… don’t drink nor smoke, and have a very active life), but… I’m scared for my dating life. Will I ever be able to practice sex again… without a condom? Give and receive oral? (Don’t misinterpret me, I don’t do one-night stands, I mean with a long-term partner) Sincerely… it feels like it’s the end of that kind of pleasure, because… well, I don’t even know if I’ll ever be able to find a man who wants to be with me with this kind of thing (most I know don’t want to use condom either…) Sorry… it’s just… a lot to digest. I’d like kind and supporting words, because those days have been hell. How is life for us after this? I’d like to know of people experiencing this or being partner of someone with it. I accept private messages if you need privacy. Thank you. submitted by /u/Weekly_Cold1 [link] [comments]
Hello, a few days ago I was co-tested for HPV and got a positive result for high risk type (not the 16 nor the 18). I’ve inmediately set a date with my gynecologist, but until then… I feel quite sad and scared.
I’ve been processing it for a few days and reading the whole lot of things I might need to do in order to put it to sleep (which I already do… don’t drink nor smoke, and have a very active life), but… I’m scared for my dating life. Will I ever be able to practice sex again… without a condom? Give and receive oral? (Don’t misinterpret me, I don’t do one-night stands, I mean with a long-term partner)
Sincerely… it feels like it’s the end of that kind of pleasure, because… well, I don’t even know if I’ll ever be able to find a man who wants to be with me with this kind of thing (most I know don’t want to use condom either…)
Sorry… it’s just… a lot to digest. I’d like kind and supporting words, because those days have been hell. How is life for us after this? I’d like to know of people experiencing this or being partner of someone with it. I accept private messages if you need privacy.
Thank you.
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