I have a higher sex drive than my partner /u/spicy-beefjerkey Sex

I (F28) and my boyfriend (32M) have been dating for 10 months. We do have sex almost every time we see eachother, but I feel like I am the only one ever intiating it. I have been told I have a higher than average sex drive, but the men I have dated have always matched me, or had an even higher sex drive. For example my most recent ex, we lived together for 2 years and would have sex 2-3 times a day, but my current boyfriend and I will only have sex once a day or some days not at all. When we are on vacation or something exciting happened that day we will have sex more often (I believe our record was 4 in one day). I am fit, attractive and take care of myself so I am not sure why he doesn’t want to smash all the time like I do. Sometimes he doesn’t stay hard during intercourse. He did say when he turned 30 things changed with staying erect and sex drive. I think he may have ED or is low in testosterone, and when I have brought it up to him he says I could be right and that he would go to the doctor, but he hasn’t and it seems like he isn’t motivcated to do so. I love him so much and our realtionship is extremely healthy, filled with laughs, and he is my best friend. I just don’t know what to do with this because I am sexually frustrated and believe there has to be some kind of solution. I do masturbate OFTEN, but just achieving orgasm is not nearly as fufilling as having sex with my partner. Any advice is appreciated.

EDIT: we live 45 minutes away from each other and he does not have have a car. We only see each other 2-3 days a week. Some weeks not at all. So we only have sex 1-2 times per week. NOT every day

EDIT 2: He has multiple symptoms of low T other than low sex drive and not able to keep an erection. He does not grow body hair, is constantly tired, does not retain muscle growth and is harder to grow his muscles since turning 30. This is the only reason I think this may be a medical problem and he does agree and even brought up other reasons he could be low in T.

EDIT 3: Please stop messaging me dick pics and trying to hook up with me!! I am only interested in my man.

I (F28) and my boyfriend (32M) have been dating for 10 months. We do have sex almost every time we see eachother, but I feel like I am the only one ever intiating it. I have been told I have a higher than average sex drive, but the men I have dated have always matched me, or had an even higher sex drive. For example my most recent ex, we lived together for 2 years and would have sex 2-3 times a day, but my current boyfriend and I will only have sex once a day or some days not at all. When we are on vacation or something exciting happened that day we will have sex more often (I believe our record was 4 in one day). I am fit, attractive and take care of myself so I am not sure why he doesn’t want to smash all the time like I do. Sometimes he doesn’t stay hard during intercourse. He did say when he turned 30 things changed with staying erect and sex drive. I think he may have ED or is low in testosterone, and when I have brought it up to him he says I could be right and that he would go to the doctor, but he hasn’t and it seems like he isn’t motivcated to do so. I love him so much and our realtionship is extremely healthy, filled with laughs, and he is my best friend. I just don’t know what to do with this because I am sexually frustrated and believe there has to be some kind of solution. I do masturbate OFTEN, but just achieving orgasm is not nearly as fufilling as having sex with my partner. Any advice is appreciated.

EDIT: we live 45 minutes away from each other and he does not have have a car. We only see each other 2-3 days a week. Some weeks not at all. So we only have sex 1-2 times per week. NOT every day

EDIT 2: He has multiple symptoms of low T other than low sex drive and not able to keep an erection. He does not grow body hair, is constantly tired, does not retain muscle growth and is harder to grow his muscles since turning 30. This is the only reason I think this may be a medical problem and he does agree and even brought up other reasons he could be low in T.

EDIT 3: Please stop messaging me dick pics and trying to hook up with me!! I am only interested in my man.