My boyfriend (M20) and I (F20) have been in a relationship for 2 months and lately things started getting more passionate. Even though he is not my first relationship, everything about sex-interaction is new to me. At the age of 14, I had a girlfriend (I’m bisexual), but I never persued anything physical with her-not even kisses-because we were both too young and shy to even give it a try. For the majority of my life I thought I would never have sex with a man, since I strongly believed that they didn’t attract me erotically speaking. But here I am, with a boyfriend and zero experience with penetrative sex or penetration in general. In fact, even during the few times I have masturbated, I have always focused on my clit only. Not that I haven’t tried, but the pain I experienced during penetration, even with just one finger, was enough for me to stop. It was just so uncomfortable and never pleasurable, so I thought about giving up. I can’t even stand using a tampon. Lately, my boyfriend has been trying to get me used to it and physically I can tell my body is enjoying it, since it beacomes all warm and loose, but mentally I can’t feel any pleasure, just this constant sensation of discomfort. Plus, the more pain I feel, the drier everything becomes, even if I’m still excited. What should I do? I really want to take the big step, but I’m worried I won’t be able to handle it.
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r/sex My boyfriend (M20) and I (F20) have been in a relationship for 2 months and lately things started getting more passionate. Even though he is not my first relationship, everything about sex-interaction is new to me. At the age of 14, I had a girlfriend (I’m bisexual), but I never persued anything physical with her-not even kisses-because we were both too young and shy to even give it a try. For the majority of my life I thought I would never have sex with a man, since I strongly believed that they didn’t attract me erotically speaking. But here I am, with a boyfriend and zero experience with penetrative sex or penetration in general. In fact, even during the few times I have masturbated, I have always focused on my clit only. Not that I haven’t tried, but the pain I experienced during penetration, even with just one finger, was enough for me to stop. It was just so uncomfortable and never pleasurable, so I thought about giving up. I can’t even stand using a tampon. Lately, my boyfriend has been trying to get me used to it and physically I can tell my body is enjoying it, since it beacomes all warm and loose, but mentally I can’t feel any pleasure, just this constant sensation of discomfort. Plus, the more pain I feel, the drier everything becomes, even if I’m still excited. What should I do? I really want to take the big step, but I’m worried I won’t be able to handle it. submitted by /u/SprinklesMuch6752 [link] [comments]
My boyfriend (M20) and I (F20) have been in a relationship for 2 months and lately things started getting more passionate. Even though he is not my first relationship, everything about sex-interaction is new to me. At the age of 14, I had a girlfriend (I’m bisexual), but I never persued anything physical with her-not even kisses-because we were both too young and shy to even give it a try. For the majority of my life I thought I would never have sex with a man, since I strongly believed that they didn’t attract me erotically speaking. But here I am, with a boyfriend and zero experience with penetrative sex or penetration in general. In fact, even during the few times I have masturbated, I have always focused on my clit only. Not that I haven’t tried, but the pain I experienced during penetration, even with just one finger, was enough for me to stop. It was just so uncomfortable and never pleasurable, so I thought about giving up. I can’t even stand using a tampon. Lately, my boyfriend has been trying to get me used to it and physically I can tell my body is enjoying it, since it beacomes all warm and loose, but mentally I can’t feel any pleasure, just this constant sensation of discomfort. Plus, the more pain I feel, the drier everything becomes, even if I’m still excited. What should I do? I really want to take the big step, but I’m worried I won’t be able to handle it.
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