Long story short of my relationship: My partner (m24) and I(f22) have recently gotten back together after an about 5 months of no contact. He was my first, he has never made me feel uncomfortable with my body, is the first person I’ve truly felt safe with in an intimate setting, and is always checking in on me/my headspace both in the bed and out.
Here’s the problem, I absolutely enjoy sex. After starting to talk again, and establishing boundaries, we’ve been starting to have sex again. I never have really been able to let myself go and be able to come when receiving oral. And after the breakup it’s been more difficult to feel worthy of it, if that makes sense?
I’ve been trying to journal and be more focused on promoting positive energy, confidence, and overall self image. But my practices don’t seem to really be helping me. I’m wondering if anyone might have advice or resources that have helped them?
Tyia! I love this community, and have really found some useful advice in the past!
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r/sex Long story short of my relationship: My partner (m24) and I(f22) have recently gotten back together after an about 5 months of no contact. He was my first, he has never made me feel uncomfortable with my body, is the first person I’ve truly felt safe with in an intimate setting, and is always checking in on me/my headspace both in the bed and out. Here’s the problem, I absolutely enjoy sex. After starting to talk again, and establishing boundaries, we’ve been starting to have sex again. I never have really been able to let myself go and be able to come when receiving oral. And after the breakup it’s been more difficult to feel worthy of it, if that makes sense? I’ve been trying to journal and be more focused on promoting positive energy, confidence, and overall self image. But my practices don’t seem to really be helping me. I’m wondering if anyone might have advice or resources that have helped them? Tyia! I love this community, and have really found some useful advice in the past! submitted by /u/Ready_Smile_1643 [link] [comments]
Long story short of my relationship: My partner (m24) and I(f22) have recently gotten back together after an about 5 months of no contact. He was my first, he has never made me feel uncomfortable with my body, is the first person I’ve truly felt safe with in an intimate setting, and is always checking in on me/my headspace both in the bed and out.
Here’s the problem, I absolutely enjoy sex. After starting to talk again, and establishing boundaries, we’ve been starting to have sex again. I never have really been able to let myself go and be able to come when receiving oral. And after the breakup it’s been more difficult to feel worthy of it, if that makes sense?
I’ve been trying to journal and be more focused on promoting positive energy, confidence, and overall self image. But my practices don’t seem to really be helping me. I’m wondering if anyone might have advice or resources that have helped them?
Tyia! I love this community, and have really found some useful advice in the past!
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