Where do you put your hands during spooning? /u/DifficultPut89 Sex

Hey all, I was late bloomer, my wife is the only women I’ve been with. Been together almost 10 years. I am trying to figure out the normal here.

Got a few questions. What’s the standard/normal for you? Clothed ,unclothed or both?

Men -Where do you put your hands when cuddling/spooning your women? Does she let you put them where ever you want? Does she have a favorite spot? Do you like to be spooned? Where do you want her hands when being spooned?

Ladies , As the person being cuddled where do you want your man’s hands? how do you feel about him being/becoming hard ? What about him leaking precum? Do you ever spoon him? Where do you put your hands on him?

How often does it turn into something more? Share any other details you think I missed.

Hey all, I was late bloomer, my wife is the only women I’ve been with. Been together almost 10 years. I am trying to figure out the normal here.

Got a few questions. What’s the standard/normal for you? Clothed ,unclothed or both?

Men -Where do you put your hands when cuddling/spooning your women? Does she let you put them where ever you want? Does she have a favorite spot? Do you like to be spooned? Where do you want her hands when being spooned?

Ladies , As the person being cuddled where do you want your man’s hands? how do you feel about him being/becoming hard ? What about him leaking precum? Do you ever spoon him? Where do you put your hands on him?

How often does it turn into something more? Share any other details you think I missed.