How do I get my partner to make love sometimes instead/ be more romantic in bed as opposed to just fucking all the time? /u/Soft-Bad-6857 Sex

So for some background, we are engaged and have been together for 3 years. He’s 33 & I’m 29. I have tried to express this to him before, however he seems to go back to his old ways lol. I just sometimes want to feel a little more comfortable & loved during sex. Most of the time he just wants to fuck & leave that loving stuff out. But that’s what I want now more than before and I’ve talked with him. He assures me he will try harder but he just gets carried away in all honesty. Thank you!

So for some background, we are engaged and have been together for 3 years. He’s 33 & I’m 29. I have tried to express this to him before, however he seems to go back to his old ways lol. I just sometimes want to feel a little more comfortable & loved during sex. Most of the time he just wants to fuck & leave that loving stuff out. But that’s what I want now more than before and I’ve talked with him. He assures me he will try harder but he just gets carried away in all honesty. Thank you!