How do I stop being homophobic? /u/nikwillow No such thing as stupid questions

I’m a woman who had been raised in a very Christian household for all of my life, and with that came the classic “gay bad.” However, I was also taught to hate the sin, not the sinner. My parents won’t treat anyone differently just because they’re LGBTQ aside from not inviting you to our temples or something. So I treat and love everyone equally, but for some reason when I think of lesbian relationships specifically I get kinda weirded out, like “that’s not how it’s supposed to be.” What’s even weirder is I’m completely fine with men in gay relationships. One of my best friends is bi and has a crush on a girl, and I’ve supported her just the same I would if she were straight crushing on a man, but I can’t help but feel a little weirded out by the thought of it. I don’t know what to do.

I’m a woman who had been raised in a very Christian household for all of my life, and with that came the classic “gay bad.” However, I was also taught to hate the sin, not the sinner. My parents won’t treat anyone differently just because they’re LGBTQ aside from not inviting you to our temples or something. So I treat and love everyone equally, but for some reason when I think of lesbian relationships specifically I get kinda weirded out, like “that’s not how it’s supposed to be.” What’s even weirder is I’m completely fine with men in gay relationships. One of my best friends is bi and has a crush on a girl, and I’ve supported her just the same I would if she were straight crushing on a man, but I can’t help but feel a little weirded out by the thought of it. I don’t know what to do.