To start I (m24) should say I’ve had two ex partners, neither of which never really helped me improve my game. I mean that to say, I can be awkward in bed and have grown accustomed to being with a partner that lies there without any input on how I can improve (I believe this is called “the starfish”?). Due to that, I just always perform poorly in bed and always finish myself with my hand. Then last night happened.
This girl actually wanted to make me finish…. Like I was shocked and filled with so many emotions. I’ve never had a girl had that face of pleasure while she jerked and sucked me. I love pleasing and love the feeling of making my partner orgasm so it was such a fulfilling feeling to see a partner have that same feeling. Granted the sex was pretty poor (I have erection issues often), but it was the first time my partner told me it was okay and gave me tips on how to improve (told me my head game was great which boosted my confidence). Then at the end when I went to finish with my hand like always, she took the lead and edged the shit out of me for an hour and a half….
Something new has awoken in me and I honestly am trying to process it all. I’ve never considered myself submissive in bed but I feel like a whole new world has opened up for me. Having a partner who is supportive and kind and wants to give me pleasure, while also enjoying the control she has in bed is something I never would’ve thought I’d like, but honestly I loved it. Sorry for the ramble but i just needed to tell somebody all this…
(Edit: I labeled this under kinks because I suppose I’m into giving up control now lol)
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r/sex To start I (m24) should say I’ve had two ex partners, neither of which never really helped me improve my game. I mean that to say, I can be awkward in bed and have grown accustomed to being with a partner that lies there without any input on how I can improve (I believe this is called “the starfish”?). Due to that, I just always perform poorly in bed and always finish myself with my hand. Then last night happened. This girl actually wanted to make me finish…. Like I was shocked and filled with so many emotions. I’ve never had a girl had that face of pleasure while she jerked and sucked me. I love pleasing and love the feeling of making my partner orgasm so it was such a fulfilling feeling to see a partner have that same feeling. Granted the sex was pretty poor (I have erection issues often), but it was the first time my partner told me it was okay and gave me tips on how to improve (told me my head game was great which boosted my confidence). Then at the end when I went to finish with my hand like always, she took the lead and edged the shit out of me for an hour and a half…. Something new has awoken in me and I honestly am trying to process it all. I’ve never considered myself submissive in bed but I feel like a whole new world has opened up for me. Having a partner who is supportive and kind and wants to give me pleasure, while also enjoying the control she has in bed is something I never would’ve thought I’d like, but honestly I loved it. Sorry for the ramble but i just needed to tell somebody all this… (Edit: I labeled this under kinks because I suppose I’m into giving up control now lol) submitted by /u/jpollack21 [link] [comments]
To start I (m24) should say I’ve had two ex partners, neither of which never really helped me improve my game. I mean that to say, I can be awkward in bed and have grown accustomed to being with a partner that lies there without any input on how I can improve (I believe this is called “the starfish”?). Due to that, I just always perform poorly in bed and always finish myself with my hand. Then last night happened.
This girl actually wanted to make me finish…. Like I was shocked and filled with so many emotions. I’ve never had a girl had that face of pleasure while she jerked and sucked me. I love pleasing and love the feeling of making my partner orgasm so it was such a fulfilling feeling to see a partner have that same feeling. Granted the sex was pretty poor (I have erection issues often), but it was the first time my partner told me it was okay and gave me tips on how to improve (told me my head game was great which boosted my confidence). Then at the end when I went to finish with my hand like always, she took the lead and edged the shit out of me for an hour and a half….
Something new has awoken in me and I honestly am trying to process it all. I’ve never considered myself submissive in bed but I feel like a whole new world has opened up for me. Having a partner who is supportive and kind and wants to give me pleasure, while also enjoying the control she has in bed is something I never would’ve thought I’d like, but honestly I loved it. Sorry for the ramble but i just needed to tell somebody all this…
(Edit: I labeled this under kinks because I suppose I’m into giving up control now lol)
submitted by /u/jpollack21
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