Feel insecure about my anatomy and amount of partners boyfriend has had /u/jolenedame Sex

I’d say I’m mildly under experienced. At 28 years old I’ve had 3 partners because all of my relationships have only been long term – I don’t sleep with someone I don’t plan dating long term. I’m pretty insecure about my labia as it’s bigger and I have stretch marks on my thighs from having children. I’m with my partner of almost a year who I know has had a lot more experience than me. I’ve never asked because I don’t want to know but he told me he had a bit of a wild streak after he got divorced at 24. I just asked him a question or sexual nature that he says he’s done multiple times “something he doesn’t do anymore” and for some reason it gave me anxiety and made me feel light headed to hear that. We plan on getting married, how can I not let his past amount of partners be something that bothers me, especially when I’m so under experienced and self conscious about the way that I look?

I’d say I’m mildly under experienced. At 28 years old I’ve had 3 partners because all of my relationships have only been long term – I don’t sleep with someone I don’t plan dating long term. I’m pretty insecure about my labia as it’s bigger and I have stretch marks on my thighs from having children. I’m with my partner of almost a year who I know has had a lot more experience than me. I’ve never asked because I don’t want to know but he told me he had a bit of a wild streak after he got divorced at 24. I just asked him a question or sexual nature that he says he’s done multiple times “something he doesn’t do anymore” and for some reason it gave me anxiety and made me feel light headed to hear that. We plan on getting married, how can I not let his past amount of partners be something that bothers me, especially when I’m so under experienced and self conscious about the way that I look?