hi everyone f18 here, i’m on a burner account because i don’t want this associated with my main. i’ve had many opportunities to have sex throughout my experiences with men however i always shunned away from it because i was genuinely so scared of it hurting, i never really had a want or desire for it either. it was more so just me wishing i wasn’t so scared of it and wished i didn’t get so much anxiety from it.
i do have a boyfriend (he’s also a virgin) now of almost a year that i love very much and he was the first person that made me feel like i wanted to give sex a try with him. so we did but unfortunately every time we tried i felt so much pain when he tried to go the slightest bit inside of me. i did extensive research too on how to avoid this, we’ve done foreplay and we’ve used lube but it’s still so painful for me i don’t know why. everytime this happens although he reassures me that i didn’t disappoint him because im unable to withstand the pain of him going inside of me, i always end up so emotional and start crying because i feel like im not good enough or i just feel as though im not normal because i don’t understand why its so painful when none of the women around me struggled this much. on top of that im such a late bloomer all of my friends have lost their virginities in their early teenage years i just feel so horrible and it just always feels like there’s something wrong with me. i don’t really have anyone to talk to about this either because i just feel so embarrassed. i just want to experience what everyone experiences with their partner when they have sex. it saddens me so much when all my boyfriends friends talk to him about how good sex is with their girlfriends and this is the circumstance of our sex life. of course not that he makes me feel that way but it’s just how i feel. i really don’t know how to help myself here.
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r/sex hi everyone f18 here, i’m on a burner account because i don’t want this associated with my main. i’ve had many opportunities to have sex throughout my experiences with men however i always shunned away from it because i was genuinely so scared of it hurting, i never really had a want or desire for it either. it was more so just me wishing i wasn’t so scared of it and wished i didn’t get so much anxiety from it. i do have a boyfriend (he’s also a virgin) now of almost a year that i love very much and he was the first person that made me feel like i wanted to give sex a try with him. so we did but unfortunately every time we tried i felt so much pain when he tried to go the slightest bit inside of me. i did extensive research too on how to avoid this, we’ve done foreplay and we’ve used lube but it’s still so painful for me i don’t know why. everytime this happens although he reassures me that i didn’t disappoint him because im unable to withstand the pain of him going inside of me, i always end up so emotional and start crying because i feel like im not good enough or i just feel as though im not normal because i don’t understand why its so painful when none of the women around me struggled this much. on top of that im such a late bloomer all of my friends have lost their virginities in their early teenage years i just feel so horrible and it just always feels like there’s something wrong with me. i don’t really have anyone to talk to about this either because i just feel so embarrassed. i just want to experience what everyone experiences with their partner when they have sex. it saddens me so much when all my boyfriends friends talk to him about how good sex is with their girlfriends and this is the circumstance of our sex life. of course not that he makes me feel that way but it’s just how i feel. i really don’t know how to help myself here. submitted by /u/Cool-Introduction567 [link] [comments]
hi everyone f18 here, i’m on a burner account because i don’t want this associated with my main. i’ve had many opportunities to have sex throughout my experiences with men however i always shunned away from it because i was genuinely so scared of it hurting, i never really had a want or desire for it either. it was more so just me wishing i wasn’t so scared of it and wished i didn’t get so much anxiety from it.
i do have a boyfriend (he’s also a virgin) now of almost a year that i love very much and he was the first person that made me feel like i wanted to give sex a try with him. so we did but unfortunately every time we tried i felt so much pain when he tried to go the slightest bit inside of me. i did extensive research too on how to avoid this, we’ve done foreplay and we’ve used lube but it’s still so painful for me i don’t know why. everytime this happens although he reassures me that i didn’t disappoint him because im unable to withstand the pain of him going inside of me, i always end up so emotional and start crying because i feel like im not good enough or i just feel as though im not normal because i don’t understand why its so painful when none of the women around me struggled this much. on top of that im such a late bloomer all of my friends have lost their virginities in their early teenage years i just feel so horrible and it just always feels like there’s something wrong with me. i don’t really have anyone to talk to about this either because i just feel so embarrassed. i just want to experience what everyone experiences with their partner when they have sex. it saddens me so much when all my boyfriends friends talk to him about how good sex is with their girlfriends and this is the circumstance of our sex life. of course not that he makes me feel that way but it’s just how i feel. i really don’t know how to help myself here.
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