GF isn’t a very sexual person and very vanilla /u/FUCBOIsouls Sex

I’ve been with my gf for over a year now, and I really love her. We do have a lot of sex, every time we meet honestly, Initiated by her most of the time as well, but in general she’s not a very sexual person.

She never wants to do anything other than penetration, so more often then not there’s 0 to no foreplay. Which upsets me because I love foreplay, and the few times I’ve pushed for foreplay it never lasts any long at all because she cant stand the teasing, so I barely get head or get to give head.

On top of this she’s very vanilla as well, not really wanting or interested in trying anything new, with the “wildest” thing we’ve done being 69, which has happened less than 5 times in our relationship. With all we do being missionary and the occasional doggy.

It really does upset me because it kills a lot of the joy for me. I love the foreplay and build up but she cant stand it. I would consider myself a very kinky and exploratory person wanting to try new things, but it’s really hard when I know she doesn’t. Only recently has she said she’d wanna try have me eat her ass, but not because she wants to, but because she knows I’ve done it with my previous partner and I guess is a bit jealous.

Is there any way I can get her to try new things and involve herself in more foreplay? Are there any sexual things we could do to slowly explore and build up to even more out there things?

Also I would never do anything without her consent, if I bring something up or we try something and she says no, it ends there. I would just like to do more than we currently are, because as much as its still enjoyable, its getting very stale and boring and I’m noticing myself starting to lose the enjoyment.

I’ve been with my gf for over a year now, and I really love her. We do have a lot of sex, every time we meet honestly, Initiated by her most of the time as well, but in general she’s not a very sexual person.

She never wants to do anything other than penetration, so more often then not there’s 0 to no foreplay. Which upsets me because I love foreplay, and the few times I’ve pushed for foreplay it never lasts any long at all because she cant stand the teasing, so I barely get head or get to give head.

On top of this she’s very vanilla as well, not really wanting or interested in trying anything new, with the “wildest” thing we’ve done being 69, which has happened less than 5 times in our relationship. With all we do being missionary and the occasional doggy.

It really does upset me because it kills a lot of the joy for me. I love the foreplay and build up but she cant stand it. I would consider myself a very kinky and exploratory person wanting to try new things, but it’s really hard when I know she doesn’t. Only recently has she said she’d wanna try have me eat her ass, but not because she wants to, but because she knows I’ve done it with my previous partner and I guess is a bit jealous.

Is there any way I can get her to try new things and involve herself in more foreplay? Are there any sexual things we could do to slowly explore and build up to even more out there things?

Also I would never do anything without her consent, if I bring something up or we try something and she says no, it ends there. I would just like to do more than we currently are, because as much as its still enjoyable, its getting very stale and boring and I’m noticing myself starting to lose the enjoyment.