I (22F) am in my first relationship with my boyfriend (24M). We have been dating and having sex for a year. He is my first sexual partner too. Before him, I’d only ever kissed boys. For the first half of our relationship he’d give me oral and it’d feel like nothing. After learning to finish with the rose, oral from him feels like overstimulating and not enough at the same time. He’s never made me orgasm in any way besides sex toys. I asked him if he made girls finish in the past and he said yes. He made them finish more times than not. I feel awful about myself knowing he was more sexually compatible with them compared to me. I feel broken and very sad. How can I fix this? I feel like he’s disappointed in me and myself for this not happening through oral or fingering.
Tldr; boyfriend can’t make me finish and is more sexually compatible with past girls
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r/sex I (22F) am in my first relationship with my boyfriend (24M). We have been dating and having sex for a year. He is my first sexual partner too. Before him, I’d only ever kissed boys. For the first half of our relationship he’d give me oral and it’d feel like nothing. After learning to finish with the rose, oral from him feels like overstimulating and not enough at the same time. He’s never made me orgasm in any way besides sex toys. I asked him if he made girls finish in the past and he said yes. He made them finish more times than not. I feel awful about myself knowing he was more sexually compatible with them compared to me. I feel broken and very sad. How can I fix this? I feel like he’s disappointed in me and myself for this not happening through oral or fingering. Tldr; boyfriend can’t make me finish and is more sexually compatible with past girls submitted by /u/Super-Enthusiasm7984 [link] [comments]
I (22F) am in my first relationship with my boyfriend (24M). We have been dating and having sex for a year. He is my first sexual partner too. Before him, I’d only ever kissed boys. For the first half of our relationship he’d give me oral and it’d feel like nothing. After learning to finish with the rose, oral from him feels like overstimulating and not enough at the same time. He’s never made me orgasm in any way besides sex toys. I asked him if he made girls finish in the past and he said yes. He made them finish more times than not. I feel awful about myself knowing he was more sexually compatible with them compared to me. I feel broken and very sad. How can I fix this? I feel like he’s disappointed in me and myself for this not happening through oral or fingering.
Tldr; boyfriend can’t make me finish and is more sexually compatible with past girls
submitted by /u/Super-Enthusiasm7984
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