How to make it less overwhelming? /u/Ill-Ad5982 Sex

Hi! I (23F) had PIV sex for the first time last night with a guy I met on Tinder. It was a one night stand, but I’m really glad I lost it with him because it was a great experience and he was a good guy. It didn’t hurt at all too which surprised me. I tried to have PIV sex in the past with a situationship and he couldn’t fit his dick in me because I wasn’t aroused/too drunk, so I’m happy this experience was good and we overall had a fun time. Sex is much better than I thought it’d be, so imagining it with the right person is exciting.

He ended up cuming towards the end after 10 mins of sex, and he wanted to get me off. I’ve had issues with getting off with a partner there but have no issue doing it on my own. I’ve had various sexual partners but only one partner now that I’ve done PIV with. Everything he did just felt way too overwhelming and like too much, it was almost as if how good it felt was scary and I didn’t want him to keep trying. I told him to slow down, but it still felt almost too overwhelming. He ended up stopping after I told him it’s hard for me to orgasm, but I really wanted to try.

It’s weird because on my own, I don’t feel that same overwhelming sensation that I feel with a partner. It’s always with a partner that I feel like their touch/tongue is too much and it makes me want them to stop. I don’t know if I was overstimulated by having sex for the first time. Has anybody ran into an issue like this?

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​r/sex Hi! I (23F) had PIV sex for the first time last night with a guy I met on Tinder. It was a one night stand, but I’m really glad I lost it with him because it was a great experience and he was a good guy. It didn’t hurt at all too which surprised me. I tried to have PIV sex in the past with a situationship and he couldn’t fit his dick in me because I wasn’t aroused/too drunk, so I’m happy this experience was good and we overall had a fun time. Sex is much better than I thought it’d be, so imagining it with the right person is exciting. He ended up cuming towards the end after 10 mins of sex, and he wanted to get me off. I’ve had issues with getting off with a partner there but have no issue doing it on my own. I’ve had various sexual partners but only one partner now that I’ve done PIV with. Everything he did just felt way too overwhelming and like too much, it was almost as if how good it felt was scary and I didn’t want him to keep trying. I told him to slow down, but it still felt almost too overwhelming. He ended up stopping after I told him it’s hard for me to orgasm, but I really wanted to try. It’s weird because on my own, I don’t feel that same overwhelming sensation that I feel with a partner. It’s always with a partner that I feel like their touch/tongue is too much and it makes me want them to stop. I don’t know if I was overstimulated by having sex for the first time. Has anybody ran into an issue like this? submitted by /u/Ill-Ad5982 [link] [comments] 

Hi! I (23F) had PIV sex for the first time last night with a guy I met on Tinder. It was a one night stand, but I’m really glad I lost it with him because it was a great experience and he was a good guy. It didn’t hurt at all too which surprised me. I tried to have PIV sex in the past with a situationship and he couldn’t fit his dick in me because I wasn’t aroused/too drunk, so I’m happy this experience was good and we overall had a fun time. Sex is much better than I thought it’d be, so imagining it with the right person is exciting.

He ended up cuming towards the end after 10 mins of sex, and he wanted to get me off. I’ve had issues with getting off with a partner there but have no issue doing it on my own. I’ve had various sexual partners but only one partner now that I’ve done PIV with. Everything he did just felt way too overwhelming and like too much, it was almost as if how good it felt was scary and I didn’t want him to keep trying. I told him to slow down, but it still felt almost too overwhelming. He ended up stopping after I told him it’s hard for me to orgasm, but I really wanted to try.

It’s weird because on my own, I don’t feel that same overwhelming sensation that I feel with a partner. It’s always with a partner that I feel like their touch/tongue is too much and it makes me want them to stop. I don’t know if I was overstimulated by having sex for the first time. Has anybody ran into an issue like this?

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