Long story short, I am a guy that had a really late glow up after high school. I went from being really ugly and not attracting any women, to having a lot of women be very attracted to me in the span of 2 to 3 years. Because of this, I was a virgin until after high school, and had not kissed anyone until after high school.
When I started dating my gf I had only had like 5 rounds of sex in my life, and had only kissed a few times. I was very inexperienced, so I didn’t always know exactly what to do.
Recently I overheard that my gf told her friends a guy from her past was better at building tension which made the sex hotter than with me, and since I don’t have previous experiences to gain confidence from this shattered my sexual confidence. I don’t have much experience flirting or kissing or anything like that. After hearing that, I initiated less because I was worried I would mess it up or disappoint her, and now she’s been really mad at me telling me that I don’t make her feel desired because I don’t initiate. I explained why this was happening and that after hearing that I just feel incompetent, but she is really mad at me. I wish she would just show me, but she told me she hates when the guy doesn’t lead the foreplay and doesn’t want to be the one leading foreplay, but since I don’t really have much experience with foreplay and build up, I’m not really sure what I’m doing.
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r/sex Long story short, I am a guy that had a really late glow up after high school. I went from being really ugly and not attracting any women, to having a lot of women be very attracted to me in the span of 2 to 3 years. Because of this, I was a virgin until after high school, and had not kissed anyone until after high school. When I started dating my gf I had only had like 5 rounds of sex in my life, and had only kissed a few times. I was very inexperienced, so I didn’t always know exactly what to do. Recently I overheard that my gf told her friends a guy from her past was better at building tension which made the sex hotter than with me, and since I don’t have previous experiences to gain confidence from this shattered my sexual confidence. I don’t have much experience flirting or kissing or anything like that. After hearing that, I initiated less because I was worried I would mess it up or disappoint her, and now she’s been really mad at me telling me that I don’t make her feel desired because I don’t initiate. I explained why this was happening and that after hearing that I just feel incompetent, but she is really mad at me. I wish she would just show me, but she told me she hates when the guy doesn’t lead the foreplay and doesn’t want to be the one leading foreplay, but since I don’t really have much experience with foreplay and build up, I’m not really sure what I’m doing. submitted by /u/Small-Promotion2552 [link] [comments]
Long story short, I am a guy that had a really late glow up after high school. I went from being really ugly and not attracting any women, to having a lot of women be very attracted to me in the span of 2 to 3 years. Because of this, I was a virgin until after high school, and had not kissed anyone until after high school.
When I started dating my gf I had only had like 5 rounds of sex in my life, and had only kissed a few times. I was very inexperienced, so I didn’t always know exactly what to do.
Recently I overheard that my gf told her friends a guy from her past was better at building tension which made the sex hotter than with me, and since I don’t have previous experiences to gain confidence from this shattered my sexual confidence. I don’t have much experience flirting or kissing or anything like that. After hearing that, I initiated less because I was worried I would mess it up or disappoint her, and now she’s been really mad at me telling me that I don’t make her feel desired because I don’t initiate. I explained why this was happening and that after hearing that I just feel incompetent, but she is really mad at me. I wish she would just show me, but she told me she hates when the guy doesn’t lead the foreplay and doesn’t want to be the one leading foreplay, but since I don’t really have much experience with foreplay and build up, I’m not really sure what I’m doing.
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