Hi. F, been in a relationship for over a year now. I’ve done practically everything except 4th base and giving head. Since summer break we kinda stopped doing things except for making out. Mostly because of religion and because I sometimes felt like I had pressure to be sexual (even though I know this isn’t true). My bf is a lot more sexual than I am and even though I know he is okay with not doing things anymore, I don’t want to take something away from him.
If the issue was just that I don’t enjoy sexual things I would not pressure myself doing it. Sometimes I get kinda freaked out when he touches my boobs or initiates sexual things so that would make you assume I don’t like it. The thing is I do masturbate like twice a month, which I enjoy even if it’s not for long (this has been happening since before my bf), and the past month I have been dreaming more about intimacy and just things like that. Sometimes I consider wanting to do things again but then I get freaked out and I just don’t know what’s going on. Any advice, mind or actions related is welcome
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r/sex Hi. F, been in a relationship for over a year now. I’ve done practically everything except 4th base and giving head. Since summer break we kinda stopped doing things except for making out. Mostly because of religion and because I sometimes felt like I had pressure to be sexual (even though I know this isn’t true). My bf is a lot more sexual than I am and even though I know he is okay with not doing things anymore, I don’t want to take something away from him. If the issue was just that I don’t enjoy sexual things I would not pressure myself doing it. Sometimes I get kinda freaked out when he touches my boobs or initiates sexual things so that would make you assume I don’t like it. The thing is I do masturbate like twice a month, which I enjoy even if it’s not for long (this has been happening since before my bf), and the past month I have been dreaming more about intimacy and just things like that. Sometimes I consider wanting to do things again but then I get freaked out and I just don’t know what’s going on. Any advice, mind or actions related is welcome submitted by /u/HpHg0033 [link] [comments]
Hi. F, been in a relationship for over a year now. I’ve done practically everything except 4th base and giving head. Since summer break we kinda stopped doing things except for making out. Mostly because of religion and because I sometimes felt like I had pressure to be sexual (even though I know this isn’t true). My bf is a lot more sexual than I am and even though I know he is okay with not doing things anymore, I don’t want to take something away from him.
If the issue was just that I don’t enjoy sexual things I would not pressure myself doing it. Sometimes I get kinda freaked out when he touches my boobs or initiates sexual things so that would make you assume I don’t like it. The thing is I do masturbate like twice a month, which I enjoy even if it’s not for long (this has been happening since before my bf), and the past month I have been dreaming more about intimacy and just things like that. Sometimes I consider wanting to do things again but then I get freaked out and I just don’t know what’s going on. Any advice, mind or actions related is welcome
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